Why is it that so many of you seem to feel the need to play games with yourself and others about your relationships? You know if you are just looking for a way out, so why ask? You know if you are cheating or not, so why play the game of asking it is it wrong to do so?
I just cant understand people. For as much as people want to say they are educate, intelligent, moral, reasonable, why so many have to play the game that they do or seek support for doing wrong, baffles me each time I get in here. Why dont most of you just do what you want and stop playing the games? Why is it so hard to look at yourself and admit that you know you are wrong and you want to and will do it anyway, whether it is cheating or leaving or anything else?
2007-01-04 06:10:49 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. JW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your woman must have just left you. Have a beer and a cry and get over it
2007-01-04 06:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I know the question that prompted you to this. Not everyone has the benefit of having been raised in an environment where the "golden rule" was taught (do unto others as you would have them do unto you), so they are here to ask about socially acceptable behavior and norms. Sometimes the question comes in the form of something that looks like a game for the same reason the question exists - the asker doesn't know another way to ask, or they feel "weird" asking it a different way.
Asking those questions is reasonable, and you have the opportunity to make a positivie impact by giving the person constructive advice.
2007-01-04 06:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by SoCalSkierGuy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree to a certain extent. Why would anyone need to ask "I am cheating. Is it wrong if my spouse doesn't know about it?" or "my wife is fat, is it ok if I cheat?" I think most people just come up with outrageous behaviors to see what people will say. Sometimes, though, it's just fun to hear other people's responses, but I doubt most people really take the advice given here regarding important things like relationships and family issues anyway. Maybe about hair and makeup products (for the ladies) or car parts (for the guys, or girls, I guess), but not the really meaningful life-altering stuff.
2007-01-04 06:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! A question that I keep asking whenever I read all of these questions. I did find your answer to one of the questions yesterday awesome! About how women constantly whine and complain about how their husband's don't do anything and they don't listen and blah blah blah! It must be his fault, not the wives fault! I don't know why everyone is so afraid to admit they were wrong and face reality! I just don't get it! I'm as stumped as you are!
I may not be in the same age bracket as JW, but I was still raised with the golden rule. I think you're better off if you are.
2007-01-04 06:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Agreed, but it's easier for those to pacify themselves by getting others to crate's their actions. It won't change a thing that they are asking about but only reconfirm that they were wrong, go figure.
2007-01-04 07:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More importantly, why do you care so much?
2007-01-04 06:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋