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What is the difference between making someone feel bad in a conversation or "having someone feel bad" in a conversation?

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2007-01-04 05:32:18 · 3 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Family & Relationships Friends

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My interpretation of your question is this...

Sounds like the intent of the speaker.

"Making someone feel bad..." seems like the speaker intends on putting down the listener enough to where the listener believes what is being directed at them.
Eg. "Joe" tells "Sam" that he's not doing his job right and if Sam continues to do poor work he will be suspended or fired... because slacking employees have no place in the workforce.
Now, if "Sam" is a conscientious worker he'll feel bad and make an effort to improve...

"Having someone feel bad.." seems like the speaker might not have the intention to make the listener feel bad about themself or is directing the listener to feel "bad" about the subject of the conversation.
Eg. "Sue" talks to "Jan" about how 'bad apples' in class ruin it for everyone... each time the 'bad' student does something 'wrong' the whole class will suffer by losing privileges.
Will "Jan" feel bad that she may be perceived as a 'bad apple'? Or, will she feel bad that 'bad apples' will ruin her time in class?

Just my thoughts.

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2016-12-12 03:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

gee.....neither is good......

2007-01-04 05:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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