im 16 and he will be 16 this year,we love each other well he tells me he does and i belive him 2 my best ability but i feel kind of depressed when i dnt see him,i alwayz seem 2be his last priority well it feels that way most of the time he is engaged wit his footie and when he isnt playin or watchin it he spends the rest of the time in the day with his m8s or is busy with his family...i understand that he has a life 2live and that he needs time to himself but the only chances i get 2see him is about 2x a week for a couple of hours in the evening,so i never get 2 spend quality time with him in the day like goin 2the cinema & so on.I am Alwayz the 1 to contact him! 2c wether he is free and so on but whenever i do he is alwayz saying thigs such as "i cant im stayin round my m8s house 2nite/seeing my m8s 2day" or "im goin 2 watch a footie match/playing it/training" when we are 2gether he is so nice bt it jst its seems he dosnt hav that much time 4me and it makes me cry coz i wana c him :(
2007-01-04 05:25:43 · 12 answers · asked by meeky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank you 4 all ur comments! there such a good help ta xx Much Love xx
2007-01-04 05:49:30 · update #1
Take your time like some have said already and yes have some fun but don't disrepect yourself by just sleeping around.
If you truely love him I'm going to assume you want to put some effort in to keep him and make a better relationship.
Maybe if you started to fill up your time so you "don't have time you're staying at your mates" on the two times you actually want to see him and spend time with him the shoe will be on the other foot and maybe it will answer your question of does he really love me or not.
It might be a big risk but looking at it in a positive light he either stays and starts to make more effort to prioritise you (he really does love you as you suspect) or he won't be bothered (he doesn't really) either way you win! Because you have your answer and you've not forced it or made yourself look like a bunny boiler!;)
Alternatively you could try getting involved by saying you will take an interest in football or being with him when he stays at his mates, however this might be a little too "bunny boiler" for him so you should be careful.
I do have the burning question of, where are your friends and maybe you should be spending more time with them instead of worrying about and wanting to spend more time with him?
Hope this helps
2007-01-04 05:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r either to clingy or he really his buzy! If ur always the 1 to contact him then talk to him about ur relationship! he has a life and so do u! start livin it! if he never wants 2 c u then dump him! if he is round at his mates then invite a mate 2 ur house! and when he asks u if u want 2 do anythin then say u cant coz ur at ur mates! eventually he will get the point and want 2 c u more! and stop cryin- lifes 2 short!
2007-01-04 05:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by BLONDE...ME?? <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should take a break from him there is no need to split up completly just yet take a break and let him do the chasing for a while dont phone him let him phone you and sweep you of your feet if he doesnt then he isnt worth it and you should move on but before you go on a break explain to him what he has been doing wrong and how he can make it better then let him work for you. and if he doesnt make some attempt to put things right then you should go and find someone that really cares for you
2007-01-04 05:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise that you do one of two things .
a) either dump him , get with someone better , and get the devotion you desreve
b) or work on it , but show him that you demand respect and time . If not then just tell him you would consider dumping him . Let him know where he stands!
It all depends on how much he means to you .
hope it helped
t x
2007-01-04 05:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by lauren a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both only young he's probably got his family and his mates in his ear saying don't get too serious,get some gf's and go out with them, twice a week is ok at your age if you push him you might push him away,I've got a 15 year old son remember girls are more mature than boys.
2007-01-04 05:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. I remember that i'm a being of cost and Love. I visualize and sense the easy this is interior me. same easy that each and every person has. Spiritually talking...i'm already of existence. i'm purely living this "phantasm" yet am actively "waking up". On different ranges...Take tension to the sea and spend time there. Time with buddies or take my own self out on "date". locations like dinner, action picture, e book shop, tension to sought after previous city in u . s . a .. first and astounding...this is the 1st that I wrote right here. i'm the hero of my own "phantasm" tale...adventures and all. .
2016-12-12 03:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16 love, I know this can be a lonly time for some people, but please dont ever settle for bieng treated badly by any man, trust in youself, work hard, earn your own money and tell men who give you a hard time to sod off!
2007-01-04 10:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by magpyre 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm difficult one,you dont want to scare him off but at the same time you want to know for sure. if your sure you really like him and that he like you? sit him down and talk to him, tell him you would like to spend more time together because you think it would be good for your relationship. on the other hand if he is unable to give you the attention you need maybe you should consider just being friends.
2007-01-04 05:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by katie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you should leave him. there are many more out there for you and I'm sure that will be happy to treat you better. You are young. Enjoy your life and have some fun getting to know others.
2007-01-04 05:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by usfmangu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre so young...take your time...if at graduation you both feel something then you can take stps later on... Concentrate on school..act nonchalant and dont pressure him..
2007-01-04 05:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋