my husband has asked me to do something i would rather not mention but I will tel you that it invoves urinating so how far is too far for you
2007-01-04 05:24:38 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well this is Q&A so don't be shy none of us know who you are or will ever meet you so don't be shy to say the truth you'll get a more detailed accurate answer. Anyways i'm thinking you mean he wants you to pee on him for sexual satisfaction reasons? If it's in the shower that would be just fine with me in my opinion wouldn't bother me.
2007-01-04 05:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can say is Nothing is "too far" when both individuals agree on what they are doing.....However "GOLDEN SHOWERING" is too far for my taste. There's not a whole lot I won't do in the bedroom ( with the right person), but when it comes to multiple persons, animals, urinating and defacating in the bedroom....that's a picture I won't draw! LOL
Ask him why is this so important to him and come to an agreement about his situation.
2007-01-04 05:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anything that involves
1. pain (whips, etc)
2. physical scaring
3. potential death (no auto erotic asphyxiation for me)
4. Children
5. animals
and not in that order. There were other things that might have been on that list even a year ago, but I've tried some things (and found i dont' really like them. but hey, i tried them)
the urine thing? i would have to try it in the shower first (i try to be open minded) so if i really hated it i could just keep scrubbing. but yeah, that's kind of far
2007-01-04 05:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by smm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its uncomfortable either of you should have the freedom to say stop, and the other should have the responsibility to stop. If its not okay to say stop, then you should never say start.
My personal opinion is that its to far when you arent comfortable in your own bedroom. The bedroom is a place for you, its a refuge from the rest of a very crazy world. Its supposed to be a sanctuary.
2007-01-04 05:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told every woman I ever became intimate with what's off limits.
OFF LIMITS!
1. Golden Showers
2. Scatting (do-do eating or do-do-ing on me or her)
3. Beating or being beaten.
4. Putting ANYTHING in my $ss
5. Anything that involves another man
6. Animals
7. Children and minors (that includes porn, sex etc...)
That leaves a very wide variety of things we can do. The stuff above would be grounds to get thrown right out of bed, house and my life!
2007-01-04 05:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Piss on him if that is what he wants, you might even learn to like it in time.
At least he is not asking you to do something that might cause jealousies like inviting a 3rd partner.
Heck, my wife is so vanilla that a simple 69 is a REAL kinky treat.
As for me, been there, done that, need to go a bit farther to find my border. Dont get me wrong, I don't like golden showers, but I have been involved with plenty of women that have enjoyed it and I learned to find the enjoyable part of it. Took a while though.
2007-01-04 05:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the urinating part is a competiton between the two of you and is just something that he has thought up, be sure to tell him no hands are allowed. Unless he's pissing with a hard-on, he should not be able to squirt any further than you!!
2007-01-04 06:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Brian H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all about having a good time but anything that I considered abusive and completely degrading is where I draw the line. You should always feel comfortable and uninhibited but if what's he's asking is to much, you'd better speak up! Good luck!
2007-01-04 05:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, anything to do with urinating is too far. One can only imagine what else he has in mind!
2007-01-04 05:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband that same question and hear what he has to say, your far and other people far perhaps is totally different, others may be something quiet respectful to their each other.
2007-01-04 05:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by maria fkun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋