If it meant getting or not getting what you want out of life,would you stop being mr.nice guy?
2007-01-04 05:03:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Sure, what the hell
2007-01-04 05:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you act nicely and continue to be treated badly it is because you allow it to happen. I would say that the need is new friends and people you surround yourself with. I wouldn't hang out with a drug addict, robber, or rapist, so why on earth would I hang out with people who treat me badly? This includes family, if they are not a part of the solution than they are the problem, and in the end drama is not worth loosing yourself.
2007-01-04 13:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by I Am Blessed 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ni, I am who I am. I will not lower myself to a losers level. I will work and be true to me and get what I want. If I have the right attitude I will have everything I need. The force is strong in me.
Treat people the way you want to be treated. If they are jerks and treat you poorly that's their problem.
2007-01-04 13:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe a limitless number of narcissist sociopaths use your "justification" for behaving disgustingly. you already know the "right" answer. a person always gets what is deserved. btw, if a person always assumes he will suffer and be victimized, he "magnetizes" appropriate behaviors from others to himself to fulfill his assumptions, eh? being an a**h*le is easy, and very popular in a culture where "success" is measured by materialistic standards. why not be an exception to the norm?
2007-01-04 13:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys need a t-shirt that sez, Wipe Feet Here. To be nice is to be a doormat. I believe in common courtesy, but save your niceness for people who have earned it.
Just my experience.
2007-01-04 13:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can be nice without being a doormat. You need to learn the difference and then be nice, but demand respect in return.
2007-01-04 13:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would continue acting nicely, yet I would bend the rules of the game ever so slightly.
2007-01-04 17:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would show the other person how it feels to get treated badly.
No i would not stop being mr. nice guy.
2007-01-04 13:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by nett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ! You stole my avatar. Let me get back to you after one gets four hours kip.
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2007-01-04 15:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by pax veritas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop being nice... but you can't let yourself be bullied either. Stand up for yourself once (firmly) to these people and that will usually take care of it.
2007-01-04 13:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by abatardi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not! people who treat other people badly have their own problem/s. acting nice reflects on your own feelings. it would be to your advantage not to base your happiness on other peoples actions.
2007-01-04 13:09:20 · answer #11 · answered by Karyn G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋