that men dont see anything wrong with wanting the women they marry to be gorgeous, keep her weight down, be in shape, clean the house, cook his meals, wash his clothes, raise the kids, give him sex when he wants it, not to nag, and be a good little wife but we are callled all sorts of names if we want a man that has money ?? Why is it that when it comes to what women want we should just be happy to have a man ?? Why cant we have our list of demands ? Why cant we look down upon men who cant provide that ? Why is it always ok for men to want what they want but we cant ?? Its ok for men to talk about importing wives because they are more domestic but yet in the US women have to work and men can no longer provide on their own. How come men arent looked down upon when they cant provide the #1 thing they are supposed to ?
2007-01-04 04:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by JustMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This list of demands you think men have is unrealistsic, not to mention loaded with expectations that no single women could live up to. This is a two way street too, sister. You god damn biotches equally have unreaslistic expectations that only lead to resentments. Until you'all are about 30 years old you all think a very rich, good looking, kind, prince charming is still out there. NOT!
2007-01-04 04:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but you CAN.
u certainly can have a list of requisites and expectations from men. whether it has only one item (be it money) or more (and it's generally more) u sure can.
and by the way, u just did: u just showed us a potential list with a potential item on it.
and here's the news: not only u can but it is legitimate to have it.
u SHOULD have one of them lists.
frankly i would have a hard time with a partner that is always erased in front of me. just an example. ...
may i suggest the frustration you are showing is only coming from the fact that until now your lists came in conflict with the possibilities of the men you have ever been with?... u were just asking stuph they were not able to provide... just asking....
and FYI: when this happens the man we are talking about may perceive your request as a challenge. so he will not reply to your request, but to the feeling he was attacked. yeah, i know, it's THAT simple and mechanical.
so... what to do?
step 1: this is actually a MUST not an option: check your list of requirements one last time to make sure u are really absolutely at peace with it. EVERY item on it MUST feel ok, otherwise u might get what u want and be (quite) unhappy about it.
step 2: find the one that delivers. he who doesn't... well... he doesn't. move on. change.
PS: i am a male
2007-01-04 05:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by dan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your looking for men in the wrong places?
my man is a wonderful guy who treats me quite well.. i don't have to carry anything ever.. :) he does most of the cooking.. we share all the rest of the house hold chores..
he'll even chase grasshoppers away for me :)
2007-01-04 04:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u r a looser, golddigger, wench chick. Who can't appreicate guys honesty. Stop nagging about it and get in the kitchen skank.
2007-01-04 05:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think its pathetic that you have to whine on this board
2007-01-04 05:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋