Im pregnant again and Im having that feeling , But i already have ababy and i love her but Im not sure about the one im holding inside me
2007-01-04 04:36:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Honey, I remember the same feelings with all of my pregnancies (4). I remember thinking "how could I possibly love this baby I'm pregnant with as much as my older ones" Believe me, you do! I have a 2 week old and I did the same thing through her pregnancy, especially because she was concieved while I had an IUD, making her unplanned and a complete shocker! As soon as I saw her, I was instantly in love all over again (4th baby)! Don't be upset with yourself for feeling that way because as soon as your baby is born and in your arms, you will feel silly that you ever were feeling this way..believe me I've been there 3 times already! I don't think it's Post Partum, I think it's normal that your questioning how you could possibly love another one as much as your first...TOTALLY NORMAL! Good luck!
2007-01-04 04:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by wickedness_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all mothers worry that they can't love a new baby as much as they love the child they already have. thats why alot of moms don't try for baby number too. However i have two boys and i love them to the moon and back ( thats what we always say to each other.) they are as different as night and day but i love them just the same. im pregnant again with baby number three. this time around i have been crying alot and upset over everything. I guess its all normal. good luck and feel better.
2007-01-04 04:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. I was on the pill when i became pregnant with number 2 and was not happy at all. It was hard enough with one. When baby number 2 came along I fell in love with him instantly. You remember that feeling when they lay baby on your chest and you feel so happy you think your heart's going to burst? It just happened naturally. I spent the whole of my pregnancy worrying I wouldn't love him but a soon as I clapped eyes on him i was smitten, he had my heart in his tiny little hand. Talk to your family and friends, get big cuddles from your partner/husband and try to enjoy being pregnant. There's no need to get drugs from your doctor, that's a very last resort. You need time to adjust and get used to the idea of being pregnant again. Good luck xx
2007-01-04 06:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Velvet_Goth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the doctor asap!
Zoloft is safe while pregnant from what I've heard.
It is normal to feel this way, your probably anxious about caring for yet another child.
Be reminded I have heard that the 2nd time around is alot easier...your not as nervious about every litte thing.
2007-01-04 04:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jakes Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think that it is normal. i think that you are worried about maybe loving one more than the other and not having any time for any thing but kids but i am sure you are strong and God will not put more on you than you can handle so have faith and be glad that you have the chance to have beautiful babies that are God's angels. you are blessed. be happy!
2007-01-04 04:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I had it with my son but it didn't start until he was seven months. The best thing to do is to relax and try not to think about it. If you feel really depressed then you should seek medical help.
2007-01-04 04:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of your feeling are normal. Get on something for depression because it can get worse. Wellbutrin is safe to take while preggo.
2007-01-04 04:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor
2007-01-04 04:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal with your hormones going wild. Just to be safe, check with your physician to see if they need to intervene.
2007-01-04 06:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by int med rn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋