Because they realized that they made a big mistake.
2007-01-04 04:29:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes but I always feel that its too late as before you decide to break up you have given it much thought.
Relationship is not something that you can take lightly and not everyone is so lucky to get a 2nd chance. I always belive things happen for a reason, maybe he was just not meant to be and god have given you a sign. However if you feel that you really want to give him another shot, it will be your decision and you need to face whatever consequences (good or bad).
Good luck.
2007-01-04 04:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. About a year and a half after my wife and I started dating and about 6 months before we got married, my wife broke up with me. We both got back together after we both were praying about it and following what is written in the Bible in I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter". It says love is patient and kind and doesn't seek its own way at the expense of others. This love is such that it will gladly give its life to save the life of the other. It also says out of faith, hope and love that the greatest is love.
The basic problem was that I was an officer in the military and she was afraid to marry me because of it. We both felt that if love dies, it wasn't love in the first place. Ours never really died, but grew more as we were apart, making us more miserable the longer we were separated. Later she realized that she had true love for me and went out again with me one night after church. We have been married for over 28 years.
2007-01-04 13:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES i have and it was a very complicated situation because we had been broken up for three months. In those three months he decided start a relationship with his highschool love (he is 23), they moved in together, got ingaged, he bought her a car, and blew 30,000 on her. We have been together for a year and a half and he hasn't made one step towards commitment even after we got back together. Most of the time we argue or have heated conversations it is about that time when we werent together and why we broke up. If you really love him and you feel you can get past all of that then do it. Everyone screws up in relationships but you have to decide how much you are willing to take from them how much your relationship is worth to you.
2007-01-04 12:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Li Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, twice. he wanted me to come see him right after he dumped me and then years later when he thought his wife had left him. I was smart enough to realize he didn't really want me, he just didn't want to be alone and he thought of me. I'm glad I didn't go because his wife (the woman he dumped me for that he says was a mistake) came back to him.
2007-01-04 12:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men always think the grass is greener on the other side?Then they say I made a big mistake and I want to come back to you. I just do not understand their thinking.
2007-01-04 12:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋