People always come into you life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on
2007-01-04 04:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
Lifetime, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life....
What is your intrepration of this prose? What would your perspective be if someone sent it to you?
2007-01-04 04:26:27 · update #1
Other questions:
1. What if an ex-wife, ex-husband, boyfriend sent it to you- what would your perspective then be?
2. What if they sent it to your ex? How would you feel? What would you do?
2007-01-04 04:28:33 · update #2
I have received this and I believe the one who guards over us sends us what we need when we need it. I have had many people come and go in my life and each of them had a lesson that I needed to learn and my hope is that I had a lesson for them. My philosophy is; learn from the past, hope for the future, and live in the moment.
2007-01-04 04:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by al 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try not to "throw the baby out with the bathwater".
If it was an ex, I would learn from both of our mistakes and not look back otherwise.
If it was someone who passed on, I would use the happy memories to make me smile when I start to get sad about it.
I would thank God for the good times yet to come in the future.
2007-01-04 04:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was sent to an x . I would think it a good thing. he can read it
and learn by it.
I agree with you fully
I don't remember the other question but this a good thing for People to read. some will not agree but most open minded people will agree.
2007-01-04 04:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love it!! your beautiful. . . this is sooo true , sometimes we ourselves walk out of peoples lives because we know that our work here is done. its true that learning is a life time process. . . . and if you see it through your persepective it seems less hurtful
2007-01-04 04:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so true and so beautiful. I agree 100%.
2007-01-04 14:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love which have an end.
2007-01-04 04:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋