I'm a sixteen year old girl and have been having really weird symptoms e.g. nausous, dizziness, frequently urinating, headaches, mild cramps... most of all i haven't had my period for three days now. my bf and i used the withdrawal method but right on the day i think i was ovulating. i'm not sure if i am pregnant or not. when can i home test and when would it be acurate (do i have to wait a week to see if the hormone levels are high enough)? how do i tell my mom if i am? and how much more info can someone tell me to help me know what the heck is going on with me!!!!
2007-01-04 04:10:34 · 23 answers · asked by katie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sounds like you wanted to get pregnant. If you didn't then you know that doing it on the day of ovulation is a really bad idea especially without using protection just the pull out method that never works!! Figure it out!!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 04:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by hunter 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hey there. I'm 18 and pregnant right now and it is very unplanned. The father and I aren't even together anymore. I'm at 11 weeks already. Anyway, those are all tell-tale signs, yes, but don't freak out yet. I'm not gonna lecture you on the pull-out method, but condoms would have been a better choice, not matter what the guys says. Wait until the end of the week and if you still don't get your period, get an at home test (i actually recommend about 3 tests at one time) If any show positive, ask someone to take you to a free clinic and get one of those tests done. They are FAR more accurate. If it turns out that you have to tell your mom, just tell her. I don't even live at home anymore and I was so scared to tell her! I told her the day I got the test results back. She was shopping an hour away, so when I called and told her, she said that she would be in my office ASAP. SHe came in and hugged me and cried with me. I had misjudged my mother all along. Your mother is literally the only one that could possibly undersand what you are going through because she has been there, even if her's was planned. Also, there are 1-800 numbers that you can call toll-free 24-7 that can help. It's not the end of the world, I promise. Just hang in there. Oh, and don't forget to breath.
2007-01-04 04:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most over the counter tests now can test accurately the first day you miss your period.
As you may have just figured out the hard way the "withdrawal" method is not at all reliable. Not only can you get pregnant, but it also does nothing to protect you from sexually transmitted diseases.
As for telling your mother, I don't know how your relationship with your mother is, so that is hard to say. But you should be talking to some adult that you know and can trust so that they can advise you on proper health procedures to keep your safe, whether you are currently pregnant or not.
Good luck.
2007-01-04 04:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hotsauce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie calm down first, I am 30 years old and I got pregnant at 16. I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I would suggest going to your regular ob/gyn if you have one and have them give you a blood test as well as a urine test... The blood will detect pregnancy much quicker. If you are not pregnant than your doctor may run other test to see what is wrong with you.
If you are pregnant... your doctors office may assist you in telling your mom. I know it seems scary.. but once you tell her the hard part is over... as far as your mom is concerned. Being a mom is hard work.. so make sure you discuss everything with your BF and you know he is going to be there for you. Hopefully you have a understanding mom like I did who will be there to help you learn how to be a responsible parent. She was upset but she stood by me and helped me out. If you are pregnant.. your life doesn't have to end.. It will alter it alot, but remember your dreams don't die cause you have a baby. Stay in school!!!
2007-01-04 04:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by LOLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can usually use the EPT within 3 days of a missed period. If you are, there is no other way to tell your Mom than to come right out and say it. I hope for your sake you aren't. The best method of birth control is abstinence. You should always use a condom if you are going to have sex. You can be experiencing these things from stress, knowing the possibility that what you did can cause pregnancy is stress. If you are pregnant you should see an OB/GYN right away.
2007-01-04 04:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you should definitely get a home pregnancy test and if it shows positive follow up with a ob or if you are afraid of your parents finding out go to a health clinic where it is free and all patients info is confidential. About telling your mom don't wait to long and don't let her have to find out through someone else also your boyfriend should be apart of you telling her. She will probably freak but everyone is entitled to a mistake and you must except what has happened and move on. Good Luck.
2007-01-04 04:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by FiahRed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're period is late, then test now. You seem to be having the early symptoms so it could be a good possibility.
The withdrawel method doesn't exist, it's not going to prevent pregnancy at all, there is pre-*** that contains sperm that is just as likely to get you pregnant.
If you are, you need to be an adult, observe your options and sit your mom down and tell her and deal with any reaction she may give, the sooner she gets it out and you let her, then the sooner she can support you and help.
2007-01-04 04:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is/can be scary. so first of all try to relax. You can take a test as soon as you miss your period, and it should come out correct. If you are pregnant, then talk to your mom. she may be mad at first, but that is just because you are a baby. she will soon get over it, and may even enjoy the thought of a new baby around. But you will have to grow up very fast, and understand that you can't do all the fun things you used to. you will have to dedicate your life to your new baby. but first step first, take a test. we will be waiting to hear how it turns out. if you have more questions you can e-mail me. I am 24 years old, and have two girls and am now currently 37 weeks pregnant with a boy.
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2007-01-04 04:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pulling out is NOT an effective method of birth control. Precum contains sperm. If you don't know that, you shouldn't be having sex.
Now, if you are pregnant, you're going to have to deal with the consequences. Get ready to drop out of school (GEDs are great for bagging groceries) and raise a baby alone (because let's be honest, a 16 year old boy is not going to help you). USE CONDOMS.
2007-01-04 04:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://www.plannedparenthood.com
Visit the above website. also try
http://www.babycenter.com
Be straight out with your mom, you are going to need all the support you can get.
You can take a HPT (Home Pregnancy Test) the day you were supposed to start your period. If it's negitive wait a week then retest. If it's still negitive and you have not gotten your period, see your doctor for a Blood pregnancy test.
Good Luck, God Bless and Happy New Year.
2007-01-04 04:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do a test from as soon as you have missed your period and it will be very reliable.
From your symptoms you could be pregnant. The withdrawal method is NOT reliable.
2007-01-04 04:16:58 · answer #11 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋