Why is it that two people who love each other cannot seem to get their crap together and make things work? Is it fate or a test? Why can't a grown man make his own choices and stop letting other people dictate his life and happiness? How much do you withstand before you give up and move on?
2007-01-04 03:39:02 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I ask the same question but I think when a man cant get his crap together its because he chooses not to. We wait around hoping and wishing that change will come but it never does. We as women have to realize that if his crap isn’t together its because he is making the conscious choice not to and we shouldn’t waste our hopes, dreams and time waiting for him to change.
2007-01-04 03:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both people in the relationship need to know for sure what they want out of the relationship. It may be time to give up if these desires conflict. If they truly love each other, getting along should not be that big of a deal. It just takes realizing that all the little things people argue about just don't matter and aren't even worth bringing up. Instead take all that energy spent arguing and spend it trying to make the other person happy.
2007-01-04 04:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by JB04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people try to make things work out because they still feel the love for each other, one of them or they will both quit once they fell out of love because of spending too much time trying.
it has nothing to do with fate or test I guess.
For grown man cannot make decisions of their own, they're what I called losers.
How much do I withstand to give up and move on?? One inch of pain...I think one time a person will hurt me so bad makes me give up easily and move on coz I love myself better..
2007-01-04 03:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by guRl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already have one foot out the door. I always trust my instincts. If you are unhappy with the situation now, what would it take to make it better? If you don't see that changing, move on, Sister!
2007-01-04 03:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like only one person in this relationship wants it to work. Cut your loses and move on and find TRUE happiness.
2007-01-04 03:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is so broad it's difficult to answer. If two people really wanted to make things work, they would work at it. It's all about commitment and sacrifice.
2007-01-04 03:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when it's time you won't even know it's happen you just start packing and looking and doing things for yourself unconsciously and before you know it your moved out and starting a new life. trust me if you feel like this then it's only a matter of time before your gone so go know before the bull starts.
2007-01-04 03:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when it is time to leave
don't stay to long
2007-01-04 03:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋