Well, we've talked and fought about it SEVERAL times. He says I'm beautiful and he loves me, but just won't have sex with me. He pretty much flat out told me he doesn't want to. He believes since we have love we don't need to have sex all the time and the mood isn't there. We used to have sex pretty often now it's been several months and I'm at a loss. What would cause this???
2007-01-04 03:30:50 · 13 answers · asked by Renee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he's gay? I don't know but can you really live like that? Get counseling for him or get out now.
2007-01-04 03:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Candy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be one of several things: 1)he could be cheating; 2)he could be gay; 3) he may be too tired or stressed out for sex; 4) he may have a medical problem; or 5) he wants you to leave him because he doesn't want to end your relationship himself. Low or no sex drive is caused by something.
2007-01-04 03:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is afraid all you have is sex and he is trying to prove you love him without it. Is he more stressed now? Is he afraid of you getting pregnant? Has he suddenly found religion? Are you spending a lot more time together (can see you whenever he wants)?
What has changed besides the sex?
2007-01-04 03:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Shanna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but you better take that as a red flag. I dated my now ex husband for two years before we got married and during that time we had sex twice. It doesn't change once you get married--you can expect it once every 2 months or so if you ***** about it enough.
2007-01-04 04:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people truly believe that sex should wait until after you are married.....
but, honestly, shouldn't you be asking him about this?
2007-01-04 03:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a different sex drive than you do... you're mismatched sexually, sorry to say.
I feel for you, I'm in the same situation... there are others that know your pain. SWAGE
2007-01-04 03:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he may have something else going on the side
or maybe he is gay, which is a possiblilty
2007-01-04 03:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree -- it s getting the stinky elsewhere
2007-01-04 04:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by brainfreeze007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my friend.....turns out the man she was dating was gay.
2007-01-04 03:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is Either Gay or getting it somewhere else
2007-01-04 04:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋