If i had sex with a female and got her pregent and stayed with her would i be a bad person or a good person?
2007-01-04 03:20:20 · 27 answers · asked by maury williams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Under what circumstances you got her pregnant..?
Are you already married..?
can you give the child your name.?
will you marry the girl..?
staying and supporting through the pregnancy is OK..
BUT what happens afterwards.?
2007-01-05 19:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by pathik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh protection.. we've all heard it a zillion times, but the heat of the moment sweeps away in the land of ignornancy, carlesness, and stupidity. I am not calling you these word or crtisizing you, for you sould pretty young, and we all make mistakes, I wonder how many mistakes we are intitled to in a life time,, infinity.. live and learn from the mistakes... learn the first time, if not better the 2nd and if it take s you the third, STRIKE YOU ARE OUT!!!! OK. Bad vs. Good person? is not the question to be asked, are you a good person or bad person? just in life in general everyday? You can answer that... It's about what's right and wrong? and what do you wnat what does she want? if you got this girl pregnant staying what does this mean, marriage, or living together? Ask yourself do you stay cause you love this girl and want to share this life experience with her, or want to be the childs father, cause this is what it be? and that's all you need to be, is responsible,, Theres alot of questions you need to ask yourself and sort through, hopefully you both know each other somewhat well besides the sack where you can communicate as adults, cause having a child in this world makes you grow up a whole lot faster, if you stayed this would make you i guess good, but if you stayed but not really wanting to this would make you unhappy, her as well as the love would not be reall, it would not be bad not to stay but be a intouch and supportive of the progress of the preggnancy and any medical attention she might need, as this is because she is carry yur child as well and it's all about the health and wealth of the child, that is so innocent,
2007-01-04 11:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by homespaparties4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question would be what kind of husband and father you will be??? If you are going to give this your all then...you be a Good person if you are doing this just for show (without really trying) then you be a bad person....It's all in how a person handles something. Good luck.....read up on marriage with books like "Becoming Soul Mates" by Les Parrott III and get relationship counselling to place your relationship on a firm foundation.
2007-01-04 11:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least a responsible and honourable person.
If you are good to her, then you´re a good person... you can´t say: Hey, I´m a good person because I stay with the mother of my child and treat her bad... (if this is the case she´s better without you).
If you treat her right and give her love and care for the child - then I would say, that you´re a good person - and if you marry her, you would be an excellent and fantastic person!!!
2007-01-05 08:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder that u don't know whether u r good or bad. well, if u want others to comment on u then it depends how long u r going to stay with her. good, if for whole of ur life n bad if u stay with her just to convince urself that u r not bad. well u had done things in opposite order, first u had to decide whether u want her for ever or not n then u had to make her pregnent. i mean that's the way a good person goes.
2007-01-04 11:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what she really wanted!
if her pregnancy was an accident and she doesn't want the baby u have to pay for the opperation.. and stay with her, becouse she'll need your attention and love more than before.
if she wants the baby and she still wants u then u stay with her, get married bla bla...if u want to be a good person...
but if she want's the baby and hate's u for what u've done u have to help her raise it(with allocation) and never disturb her again...
anyway, i think u are a god person becouse u are asking this.
good luck
2007-01-04 11:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by blabla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hw will u become a bad person yaar...suppose u r ready to accept the responsibilities...n raise ur kid..n support ur love....well u mite b feelin bad coz this isnt the time u expected the "good news" but suppose u leave ur love all alone in this situation ...u will b really bad...hey yaar...may b u feelin bad mite b coz u mite hav to go against ur family wishes or society to b wid her...but dear u gona b thr wid ur love..n u wont b harming nyone..but u got to talk to ur parents n tell them clearly ...they will surely understnd ...may b in start they mite fire u...but thts ok..coz they too dint expect thngs to go this way...but u also need to b wid ur love..as widout u..she n the baby gona b alone...so jst cool down...u not doin nythng bad...n tht wont make u a bad person...but will help u in makin u a good person..by being a gr8 father.... :)
2007-01-04 11:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hum interesting Q u ask ... u would be good coz u stayed with her after u got her pregnant ... but u would be a bad person becoz u didn't make a honest woman out of her and married her ..see u didn't say married her u just said stay with her
2007-01-04 12:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't make you a bad person. To love and support someone can only be good
2007-01-04 11:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
V Gud Person
2007-01-05 22:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋