Why do women "LAST" longer than men?

Question

They just keep going on and on and dont even tell you when they get "there"?

Answer 1

It's all in our physical make up to be able to attain multiple orgasms. Sadly, due to emotional problems, some women are never able to attain even one.

If a woman doesn't tell you when she "gets there," then either she didn't "get there," or she has a reason why she doesn't want you to know that she did.
This could be due to many things, such as, religious guilt, shame, embarrassment, lack of trust, or not having a close enough emotional relationship with the one she's having sex with.

Many women have been brought up with the idea that "nice girls" don't enjoy sex, and that's an extremely difficult mind set to ever get over. They spend a lifetime without ever enjoying sex, and always have to "fake it."

It takes a very loving, and understanding man to gain her trust and teach her to relax and enjoy sex.

Answer 2

Why do they last longer? Because a female's orgasm isn't necessary for reproduction. I'm sure you've seen animals go at it at least once in your life. Usually lasts less than a minute or two. Evolved creatures that we are, we can consciously hold back, but it's still easier to get there.

As for flat-out telling you, unless you've got the most close-lipped woman in the neighborhood in bed, you should be able to tell. If you can't, tell her not to hold back in the noise-making department. Much more fun that way, I think.

Answer 3

cause most are still waiting but iv one of the lucky ones and have been there many time

and let me tell you a secret you will know when a women has reached climax
you can tell by the muscles tensing up and the look on her face

cause i know that i cant keep a straight face and i doubt any women can

Answer 4

IT's just my personal view, but the sexual experience for men and women is entirely at odds. Men think that women can get "there" by the same means we get "there" - i.e. intercourse and direct stimulation of our organ. With many women (I'm generalizing and not trying to stereotype) there is a lot that goes into the experience like kissing, petting, caressing, touching, breathing, sensuality, aromas, visuals, conversation (Yes, conversation...I had a friend one time tell me she gets excited everytime she heard her boyfriend talk.) For example, she has to feel like you're doing the act for her and not yourself - most men miss this because they have their own goal in mind. Sex for a woman has to be about the total package, where as men think that the act is the only thing that matters. Since us men don't last as long, our focus MUST be first on our female partner and not on ourselves. We need to spend more time focusing on what makes her happy in bed and more time experiencing her whole mind, body and soul...not just our penis.

This is typically why women do not like the "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" mentality, it's because that attitude means the man is only concerned with his own needs and doesn't care about the woman being excited or into it...but it's kind of funny, because these men are usually the ones that are the most insecure and worried about being liked by their wife or girlfriend...

Answer 5

Strue enuf. we DONT usually get there, its only the arrogance of that species called "man" that thinks we do. I do it myself tho when I get there lately it hasnt been much to write home about. I think the best times I got there was when I rode my bike downhill at the age of 12 and got this feeling and wondered "oooo whats that feeling, I LIKE that" (memories hahahahaha!) and I used to go round the block again to see if I could get another one (it never used to happen). Ive never found getting there all that its cracked up to be, tho I must admit I had a mindblowin one a couple of years ago. I still remember it nowcos I couldntldnt understand how Id "got there" being that I was making no effort whatsoever to do so. (like most men.......to women anyway....) I was just trying to drop off in bed, then whey hay, say no more!

Answer 6

You are not paying attention because you couldn't possibly have had, I'm taking a chance here and assuming you are talking about (whisper it) sex with every woman on this planet. In other words, using the term "women" for your meagre experience of sex is erroneous. In saying that, you aren't paying attention when you do have sex with whomever you've been having sex with.
Try to satisfy the woman and then you will see how long the woman you are having sex with "Lasts".
Remember there are 2 people in the bed - not just you.

Answer 7

We're like the Energizer bunny, except for going, we just keep coming and coming, LOL. And I"ve got to agree here, you'd know if you paid attention as to WHEN, and usually it's not you that gets us there, and nope, we don't need 20 minutes to recover. If fact, quite often it's the aftermath of the first one that promotes the second, or third, etc... :)
As for why?...cause they had to give us at least ONE thing to be thankful for about being a woman.

Answer 8

i'm residing with my boyfriend as a married couple might. we are the two pupils, he works greater, I do the home prevalent jobs. the only reason we at the instant are not married yet, is marriage is costly! whether we in easy terms desire a small one, without the rings. yet he does desire to marry me - whilst there replaced right into a contest the place you may win a unfastened one, he in the present day wanted me to sign us up. you comprehend, I actual have faith if men at the instant are not getting what they desire out of a dating, they're the two failing at choosing the surprising lady, or failing at dealing together with her nicely. i comprehend a few men who evaluate relationships to be stifling, they are asserting it provides them much less freedom. yet that would not may be the case in any respect - there are soooo many distinct females obtainable! some are completely happy with open relationships, some will artwork merely as difficult, some will cater to them, it truly is in easy terms a remember of choosing the surprising one. i think of a actual dating brings lots greater to existence, all of us could discover somebody. it truly is merely that uncommon human beings have a harder time looking somebody to healthful them. i think of everybody could have a satisfied dating and that i myself think of love is surprising. To share your existence with somebody truly makes it distinct. i assume that makes me a hopeless romantic - nicely so be it. Cheers =)

Answer 9

Are you speaking from your experience, or every mans'?

Mine always tells me when they have arrived!!

The plane landed half an hour ago, I'll be out shortly.

or...

They say, you can pull over here and drop me on the corner, if you like.

Sash.

Answer 10

wow are you lucky. I have never been there. Maybe I should date you. Ha! My husband does 3 to 4 times in one session, and I can't even get there once.