2007-01-04 02:06:20 · 15 answers · asked by SimpleOne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Change your name and phone number, block e-mails, get plastic surgery and dye your hair to change your looks, move to Timbuktu. OR inform her that your relationship is over and has been for some time and if she does not leave you alone you will go the police and get a restraining order because stalking is against the law in most states.
2007-01-04 02:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if your ex is harassing you and you are in danger or if your ex is just still emotionally attached and they just want to talk about it and explain why they are still around. I would say that if your ex is really harassing you and you do not feel comfortable then talk to them once and ofter that get the police to come out. Otherwise just talk to your ex and tell them what is going on and you do not like them bothering you. Good Luck and hopefully the advice will help.
2007-01-04 02:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you set boundaries or are you being a wimp and not telling her simple things like "Don't call me again".
It's that simple if you haven't: don't lead somebody on, don't be vague, and set some clear boundaries.
If that doesn't work, then change your phone number, but you should always be assertive unless that doesn't work. No mixed signals, no wimping out: be clear, be a man, be assertive.
I've noticed there are a lot of people here giving you advice that sounds horribly dysfunctional and passive-agressive--these are crazy people. Don't be a crazy person. Be dignified.
2007-01-04 02:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have an ex that keeps bothering you let thim know that you are no longer interested in them like that but that maybe being friends wouldn't hurt. and if you don't want to be friends with your ex anymore try to hook them up with someone else cause once they have someone else they won't have as much time to bother you!!!
2007-01-04 02:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by love strong with no regrets! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your new g/f to speak to her. That's what I did. My fiance's ex kept calling him the first few months we were together, even though he repeatedly told her he was involved in a serious relationship. She called again on Christmas Eve, at 4 in the morning, to wish him "Merry Christmas", that was it! I called her up and asked her to please stop calling, that we are now engaged and asked her to move on. I said it nicely and respectfully and to my surprise she did stop calling. Though I expected a fight out of her, I'm really glad there was none. I just want to live in relative peace and harmony with my family, you know? So try telling your ex that- to stop bothering you and move on.
2007-01-04 02:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept one last phone call from her and while being polite, remind her that there is a reason she is your EX!!! Tell her you wish her well but that it is time for her to move on THEN.... change your number.
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2007-01-04 02:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ex girlfriend? Or wife?
If its girlfriend say get the flup out of my life!
If it's your exwife without children... say get the flup out of my life!
If it's your exwife with your children then you are stuck with her bothering you for the rest of your life.
2007-01-04 02:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Robby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she bothering you about?If you owe her something pay her,if she just wants to chi chat,tell her your not interedted.
2007-01-04 02:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number block them from all your e/mails and things like that.
2007-01-04 02:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 tell them it,s over done seeya bye bye move on,what part of go away don,t you get it should work does for me
2007-01-04 02:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋