i like my friend but i dont know if i should get with her cuz i dont want are friend ship to change!!!
2007-01-04 01:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by PHAT GIRL!!!! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I went through the same thing not too long ago. what you need to do is tell her how you feel, exactly how you feel. If you keep it inside of you and don't tell her how you feel, then it will tear you apart. Even if she doesn't feel the same way about you in the end, once you tell her, your friendship can grow because you guys are completley honest with each other. Good luck, if you need someone to talk to about this, send me an email: red92fh@yahoo.com
Hope it all works out for you.
2007-01-04 01:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by red92fh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time you enter into a relationship with a good friend, you run the risk of changing that friendship forever...perhaps even destroying it. However, you could also be the perfect life partners for one another. Do you think finding that out is worth the risk?
2007-01-04 01:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a romantic involvement with a friend will undoubtedly change the nature of your friendship...that goes without saying. I think, however, if you're looking for someone to be committed to that they need to be your bestfriend - someone you can share everything with.
2007-01-04 02:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want the friendship to change in any way, then don't date her. It'll obviously change the relationship. Then again, you'll never know what could have been if you don't make a move.
2007-01-04 06:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships start out as friends, right? If she's willing and interested, I don't see how it hurts your friendship, it only increases the bond between the 2 of you.
2007-01-04 01:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship will change with closeness. Not many can keep a "brother / sister " realationship. You may be able to watch your move but she may not. After some outings, she may also change her way towards you -- to be closer. Unless you can go out in grp.
2007-01-04 01:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry, just enjoy your friendship and voila, for all you know something will come out of it. It is better that you started as friends.
2007-01-04 01:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she Bisexual/Lesbian? And if you want date her can you talk to her about if you can still be friend after you break up? It is risky bussiness however it could possibly work out.
2007-01-04 01:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss Another Girl In Front Of Her ... While in a club... She´ll be so jealous... after that pick on her...
don't be a ....w.u.s.s
2007-01-04 01:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by pc_utopia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is
2007-01-04 09:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by txlesbian06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋