hey everyone,
Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and it was about a year and a half ago we met. we both knew deep down that we had liked each other but cudnt admit to one another. cut the story short. on tuesday night he asked to see me on friday (2moro) but has i am working i cant make it, so i asked him about cuming thursday which is today after college and he told me he was working, as i had finished college early, me and my mate wer driving down town, and to notice he was driving pass us with another girl in the car. so i txtd him sayin " i asked him how was work and wat he was up to?" as time went by it was eating me up and he stil never replyed to me. so i txtd him sayin " that i had seen him dwn town and that i thought he was at work" i get a reply back sayin " lol, wer r u lot now" so i txtd bk sayin "going back to friends" and then i neva got a reply back, i tryed ringing an the fone is switched off... where have i gone rong? and wat wud u think? xX
2007-01-04 01:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i do know how to spell lol sorry its just habbits from msn :)).. hope u can all understand me. thanks for the answers so far..
2007-01-04 01:39:00 · update #1
why dont you just ask him the next time you see him?
dont do it by text or email- you need to see his reaction.
dont let it be the first thing you say to him either. act like all is well between you.... then just say it- and what his reaction is.
then you will know for sure.
blokes who switch their phones off generally are up to no good.
2007-01-04 09:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe to be fair, you should write out a contract saying that everyday at 5 pm you will check his phone, check the mileage on his car, have him strip to inspect his clothing. Have him sign it o.0 Come on, don't make life on him hard. Eventually he will get tired of it. I had a girlfriend that did that. It was a lot of work and put much un-needed and un-wanted stress on our relationship until a day I snapped and said something I still regret. Just stop. Period... Don't do it. If you can't give him his own personal space, then maybe you're not ready for a relationship.
2016-05-23 02:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God knows maybe he weren't cheating jus chillin with a friend whose a gal buh at da end of da day he shouldn't lie 2 u he shud tel u strate up wotz goin on. If dat was ma man i wud be screwin cz he lied to me ur not bein paranoid you've got the rught to think wot is goin on n if he ent cheating you've still got the rite 2 ask him y he lied.
2007-01-04 03:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just a friend.
But from what you said about him saying he was working, and actually not, and then ignoring texts etc, (then checking where you were, presumably incase he thought he was going to be caught) it just doesnt sound right.
If you confront him, he'll no doubt lie. Sounds like hes taking you for a mug- and the only thing you'd be doing wrong would be to stay with him.
2007-01-04 02:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong you just caught him out. Give yourself a couple of weeks, join a gym to keep busy and get fit and then find yourself an honest/ non cheating guy. They are out there.
2007-01-04 02:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was not cheating he would never turn his phone off,and its not about where you went wrong its about where the relationship went wrong,dont blame yourself chick,and walk out now chick,
ones a cheater always a cheater,and you need trust in any relationship,if you havent got trust there is no point,
hope this helps,
(best answer please)
2007-01-04 05:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by goodlassie666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you either hear him out and find out who the other girl was or tell him to get lost.Do you think he is capable of cheating??
Could she just have been a friend?
But as his phone is off then he obviously doesnt want to speak to you,my bf does this every weekend he`s out and it drives me insane!!
Anyway i think him switching his phone off says alot.
2007-01-04 01:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by onlyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should use the spell checker, I enjoyed the bit about "so i asked him about cuming thursday"
2007-01-04 01:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by BobC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The majority of guys i know cheat, so chances are he was cheating , even good mean cheat. Guys crave variety in sexual partners, but it doesn't mean he loves or likes you any less.
2007-01-04 01:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's got tired of dating someone who can't spell, but hell if you're short of someone for "cuming" on Thursday, count me in!!!
2007-01-04 01:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋