Rather than stay with one good woman, why do men choose to go from woman to woman? What do women do that makes a man want to stray? Is it the nature of the beast, or are women doing something wrong?
2007-01-04 00:56:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is never about the partner being cheated on. It is the character or desires of the cheater. Nothing you do or don't do would make any difference. Many will try to blame the betrayed, but that is their guilt speaking.
2007-01-04 01:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat on women, and I have long, dry spells between relationships where I try to figure everything out that went wrong.
Most women, in my experience, will harp on and on about "communication", and they are the ones that have communication issues because they are convinced their most irrational, emotional feelings are objective reality and not subjective and largely based on past conditioning.
So they can say one thing, and then they can turn around and say something almost completely the opposite 10 minutes later, and they can believe that both things are true. Now, given... I waited way too long to think about serious relationships, so many of the good ones are already taken, but this is what I encounter regularly. It's like dealing with crazy people sometimes:)
Every woman wants to think she is unique and the only one you could ever love, yet they all want to think you are independant and confident enough that you could leave and be fine (without you saying it, of course). It's built-in contradiction, and I am just now barely starting to understand this: how to be a kind gentleman without turning into a wimp who she will not respect and treat badly.
2007-01-04 02:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never believed that someone should "own" their partner and I'm all for equality but there are a lot of men who cannot handle "not owning" their partner or controlling their life. They feel threatened that the woman might have a life of their own and not be there at the guys beck and call. Woman have progressed to the point of being able to say, "you don't own me" and if you don't like it "tough". Guys, that are of the "old school" of treating their women as a chattel cannot deal with that, so tend to either avenge the issue with violence etc or they simply move on looking for their next victim. So what are the women doing wrong. Sheesh, according to the red necks, getting themselves a life!
2007-01-04 01:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most men and women who cheat enjoy variety, as well as the knowledge that 'they've still got it'.....unless there is something very wrong in the relationship, their straying is only for temporary self gratification, they still need security - so that's why they come home afterwards. Also there is a certain thrill in being daring.....I don't believe it's anything that the other partner does wrong.
...that's just my opinion anyway.
2007-01-04 01:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by shez_a_maneater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 19. Beauty- curvy body, face, and skin... Religious- pray, hijab, good manners, etc.... Education- prefer university graduated Personality- Talkative, caring, loving, etc.... The aspects that are of high importance to me is religious and education but beauty is also very important. Not everyone can be beautiful, but you can give your body a good shape and with your good diet and exercise habits, you can make yourself beautiful. I think this is enough :D EDIT: UGLY GIRLS have given thumbs down to all answer. Cheap behavior.
2016-05-23 02:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Penelope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion there are people who have flaws in their character that for whatever reason can justify being unfaithful.
I understand things happening in a relationship and people no longer wanting to be with their partner.....but when that happens you should be adult enough to speak up and either solve the problem or leave.
I really have no respect for cheaters from either sex.
2007-01-04 01:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly, do you think women do something wrong, well yes they were not cheating first, or maybe they are. what are you thinking when you ask such a question. men who cheat are looking for the sneaky challange of not getting caught and thats ok, but they are suppose to be adults
2007-01-04 01:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope...well maybe...well its so hard to say.
I think the opinion is that women lead their man on with lots of sex...then when SHE gets comfortable...she cuts him off or the frequency drops significantly...
It's like false advertising...in divorce many women get alamony to maintain quality of life...men stray because they are trying to maintain quality of life.
my opinion.
2007-01-04 00:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by silverback487 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is a good woman ,man does not normally go astray.But if they go it is generally their weakness.
2007-01-04 01:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow- this is going to be very interesting...
that again is an individual thing...almost like why men cheat in another question form....
2007-01-04 01:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋