line, or method, not too formal
2007-01-04 00:53:33 · 12 answers · asked by the atomic penguin 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
straight up ask her.. tell her you want to get to know her.. but please please.. dont take her to the movies.. i hate it when men take women on a date to the movies.. that is the last thing you need to do when trying to get to know someone.. i mean how can you talk and learn eachother in a dark quiet theatre.. make it less formal and ask her to lunch.. she has to eat.. thats a given.. so be confident and ask her in a way that she wont want to say no.. example.. hey i want to try out this place.. i havent eaten there.. wanna come with me.. as friends.. and check it out.. then that gets her to go on a casual level.. let her get to know you .. then move on from there.. good luck.. you can do it..
2007-01-04 00:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some DON'T do's.
1) Don't ask her through a friend of a friend. It's corny and impersonal.
2) Don't send her a cheesy love note with candy.
3) Please don't use pick-up lines unless the girl is a close friend and you're one of those funny happy-go-lucky guys who can get away with it.
I would suggest just having a conversation face-to-face. I know it makes it harder for you, but it wil mean so much more to her and you will be able to see her facial expressions. Is she glad, happy, sad, confused, annoyed?
Dates...I would say first date, don't be fancy. Go to a nice small pizzeria or deli shop. Sit outside under one of those little umbrella things. Then go to a little ice cream shop and take a stroll through a park. That way it's casual, you can hold hands while walking (if it goes well) and it doesn't cost much. Also, do you know what she likes? Maybe go to the bowling alley if she's the gaming type. Most of all, feel free and easy; girls hate nothing more than when guys try to cover up their real selves to make an impression.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 11:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by purplmonkeez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being real and authentic. Girls and women tend to like that. We can spot a line a mile away and usually they're stupid.
Just going up to a girl telling her you've noticed her and what you like about her, without being too offensive or graphic generally makes most girls feel friendly to you. Ask her if she'd like to have a coffee date or maybe go to a movie, and give her a specific time and day. If she also likes you she'll probably say yes and if she doesn't well there's always more girls who may like you as well.
Just be polite and yourself and don't try to be something you're not like a player or mr. cool.
Be respectful to her parents when you pick her up for a date and respect their rules, have her home on time and just be nice and snotty or go with attitude and you'll probably get the chance to take her out again. Remember to shake hands with her father even if it is old fashioned, it's a sign of respect for him and his daughter.
2007-01-04 09:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzy-tish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call or talk to her PRIVATELY. Just be like, "Hey, I think you're really cool, would you like to go out to (dinner, bowling, etc. just not a movie- that's scary to girls) ?
If she says yes, cool! Make sure you exchange numbers.
If she seems hesitant then save yourself by saying, "Well here's my number, you can call me later if that works better."
That way the ball is in her court and she feels that her space is being respected
2007-01-04 09:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she says no then shes the looser in all of this just think of it that way and if she says yes well go for it. Ask her where she would like to go give her 3 or 4 choices in case she thinks you are megga rich well good luck and P.S clean your teeth before you go cause there is gonna be some kissing later on bye
2007-01-04 09:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by kiarakitty 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all make sure she likes you too. How about sending flowers and a really sweet card. Whatever you do dont use pick up lines those are really lame and girls hate "I repeat" HATE them!!!
2007-01-04 18:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by ice_07angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she'd like to go see a movie or go get something to eat on saturday night.
2007-01-04 09:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either by poem/card
or
just ask her straight, face to face/ova the phone
good luck ;)
2007-01-04 08:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by flee1906 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wanna get some coffee?
2007-01-04 15:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by chelsea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ai9T1ThtRdZfzY7cyuVJbMXzy6IX?qid=20070104081630AAAYa0U
read the answers and my answer
2007-01-04 13:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋