Like a thorn in my toe! FRIEND VS FRIENDS BF?

Question

My friend has been going out with her boyfriend for a year now and everything seems to be rosy however the problem is....i cant stand him. i dont know if it is because deep down i resent him for taking up all my friends time leaving hardly any room for us...especially when he is ALWAYS there!!! even when its us girls he always cums!! its annoying? Am i being selfish? should i try and get along with him?

Answer 1

Yeah, you should try to get along with him. First consider yourself lucky that she is still letting you even hang out with them. One day she might marry him and if you do anything to try to change that it will be you who is booted out not him. One thing i can tell you is befriends with him but not enough to become a treat to her or else you will be booted out for that too. Consider yourself lucky to be included as part of her circle because he now comes first.

Answer 2

if your friend really loves him, then you should try to get along with him and you probably just resent him taking your friend away from you. However, if you think that he is being a bad influence on your friend, then you should consider talking to your friend about him. Try organizing official girls' night outs and tell him that he can't be allowed because of the fact that he is not a girl.

Answer 3

look i think you should try and get along with him too, i mean hes your friends bf, wont she feel bad that both of you are not on good terms?? give him a chance. and if you are not getting free time with your friend, talk to your friend about this. that you and others want to spend time with her alone, without her bf being there, once in a while. thats the best solution i can tell you

Answer 4

you dont have to become friend with her bf
but you dont need to tell her either
just tell her that you prefer to meet her without her bf so that you can talk about your stuff without him beeing present