i met this guy on myspace and...?

Question

i met this guy on myspace. he is 15 and lives in kansas, missouri.
after we talked and everything he tells me he loves me on the internet,
but when i tell him to come and get me . he says that he would if i wasnt only 13.
that was heartbreaking .
should i still talk to him??

Answer 1

He couldn't come and get you anyway... he's 15 he's not allowed to drive a car, trackter maybe, but not a car!

I think you should forget anybody that will lead you on or mistreat you like that. When you're 13, 15 yrs old you'll think you're in love A LOT!! Take it from me, I've been there, and I wouldn't lie to you.

Really though sweetie, just have fun and don't take any crap from anyone that gets in your way! Don't talk to this guy anymore, he sounds liek a real kill-joy!

Answer 2

Honey don't do the online thing, especially at your age. You really have no idea who you're dealing with or what could happen if he showed up there. For all you know he's older and a pedophile, not trying to scare you just stating it like it is and has been proven to be when it comes to MySpace.

Try finding a nice boy in your own area that you can get to know and maybe EVENTUALLY fall in love with! I would quit talking to that so-called 15 year old on the computer. You're probably not the only one anyway.

Answer 3

ok lets think abut his.
Your 13, defenceless and has no idea about the real world and wants to meet up with some random guy you met on MYSPACE aka paedo breeding ground when you may hve never even turned on a car. 13 is too young for a relationship, especially a distanced one with someone you dont know. If you must however, find someone your age and a little more local then Kansas.... and in my view if he fell in love with a 13 yr old on myspace hes probably a sad depressed emo loser

Answer 4

No, you should def stop talking to him. How do you really no that he is 15? Anyone can post a profile on Myspace and say they are 15. You are only 13 you have a ton of time before you need to fall in love. Enjoy being a teenager.

Answer 5

Here's the thing. You're still extremely young and, believe it or not, a lot of the answers already posted on here are completely accurate. At thirteen, you should be worried about finishing up middle school, not some "boyfriend". In all honesty, you're too young to understand the meaning of Love and Heartbreak anyways and the entire situation isn't worth the effort.

You have to ask yourself a few questions though. First off, how long have you been talking to him? (If it's any amount of time shorter than 5 months, you need to back out. Things got way too serious, way too fast, Especially for your age.) Next, You need to figure out what it is that you -really- feel for him. Being in love is caring about someone to the point that nothing else matters to you except their happiness and if it came down to it, you'd die for the person. Are you willing to put your life on the line for this kid? Third, you need to ask yourself if he really means what he says to you. When he compliments you, does he say you're "Hot" or does he tell you that you are beautiful and gorgeous? Is the main thing he talks about physical attraction or do you have long, drawn out conversations about everyday life and things that the two of you agree/disagree on and/or like/dislike?

Now, I'm not the type of person who is against internet dating. On the contrary, my boyfriend lives across the country from me. I am, however, a firm believer that you need to know everything there is to know before you go off and make decisions like that. Assuming he's telling the truth about his age, if he were to come "get" you, where would you live? I seriously doubt his parents are going to be supportive of him settling down so early or of some random chick moving into their house... Also: How would your parents react? Or have you even told them that you have developed feelings for this guy? Parental support in situations like this is a must. If both sets of parents don't approve, you can't expect anything to happen between the two of you until you are both over the age of 18. Seriously, what do you plan to do? Run away with each other? Trust me, that won't work. There are two main reasons.
A) You're both too young to get real jobs. You wouldn't be able to support yourselves.
B) Again, your age prohibits you from finding a place to live. Even if you plan to stay in a Motel, You have to be 21+.

So think twice over this situation and figure out what you really need to do. In all honesty, if I were you, I'd back out. There's just too much weighing against you both to stick with it.

Answer 6

come and get you? And do what? He is 15! Your'e 13! Where would you stay? Who is feeding you...Wheres the income coming from...What about your education....Don't grow up to fast, It's hard out there. Stay home and see boys in your on town. Keep in toch w your myspace pal....online... maybe in a few years when your both mature enough to handle what this world throws at you you can take a school break and go visit kansas missouri

Answer 7

You should know better than to talk to people online that you don't know, rather have never met in person. I highly doubt he is 15 and lives in Kansas at all. He is probably a pedophile. He wanted you to be older so you go go "visit" him. I really think schools should have more internet safety programs...

Answer 8

be careful about these things how do you know he isnt a 30 year old bloke? even is you've seen prictures of him or even a webcam does that definaltey prove you're speaking to who you think you are.

If you love eachother you can both wait until you're both at least 16 - and if you still want to meet, go with a group of friends in a public place - even if its three of your friends and three of his friends meeting at McDonalds and then watching a movie - take things slow, make your friends aware of everything your doing and beware!

So carry on talking to him as a friend? only expect to be distant somehat friends and then anything else will be a bonus.

Hope this helps.

Answer 9

Well, knowing this answer from a learning expirence....internet relationships hardly ever work out, and, you never know how old this guy really is, i mean come on,...he might be this 30 yr old pervert looking for VERY young girls such as your self. not only that, you only 13...live out your teenage yrs and just have fun! ....Sighs, but....if you must talk to this guy, atleast get his number and talk to him for a while, i mean a LONG WHILE....before you make any rash decsions.........But if i were you, i wouldnt talk to him at all!

Answer 10

You should never try to meet up with any one you talk to one the Internet. It could be a perv! I know you don't want to hear this but here goes anyway. There are a lot of boys out there and you'll find the one for you in flesh and blood; not on a comp. screen.