Hi, I am just coming up to 6 wks pregnant, and I had a missed miscarriage at 7 wks last summer. Has anyone else had a similar experience as I am going through hell worrying about this pregnancy. It will be my third child (had 2 normal pregnancies before the miscarriage). Any advice appreciated
2007-01-04 00:23:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hunny, I know how you feel. I had a miscarriage 4 years ago this march. I still cry over it. I have had two beautiful girls since then, but I still cant get over my first little baby. I am now 8 weeks with my third, and as you are, scared that every little pain is a bad sign. I pray every night that my baby will be protected and stay safe till my due date come in August, and that helps me go to sleep, but I still get scared during the day. My baby died at 9 weeks and I lost it at almost 11 weeks. I never thought that something like that could happen to me, but it did, and I am terrified it will happen again. I will be so happy when I get past 12 weeks and know that everything is OK. I wish you all the best and hope you get the reassurance you and me both need. Good luck and congrats.
2007-01-04 00:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage at 7 wks too. I was scared to death being pregnant and getting past the 7 wk mark. Forget 3 months. I just wanted longer than 7 wks!
I am sure your OB knows it all and would let you know what to do to reduce the risk of another miscarriage.
Take some deep breaths to get you through the panic attacks--I had them too. Freaking out every minute because I thought every twitch was impending doom.
You will be in my thoughts and good luck! Eventually you will be worrying if your baby will have 10 toes and fingers and this worry will be long gone.
2007-01-04 00:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had a miscarriage in February last year at 7 weeks ( had a normal pregnancy before) and when i found out i was pregnant again in June i was absolutely terrified that something would happen again. but so far so good, i am now 33 weeks and 3 days pregnant and i cant wait. i had got it into my head that just because i had a miscarriage something would happen in this pregnancy as well. i would advise you to just calm down, relax and enjoy your pregnancy. i know that is easier said than done but believe me if you constantly worry all the time your going to be stressed and irritable, which is exactly how i was probably until i first felt my baby move and then i started to relax abit. i really hope you have a brilliant pregnancy. take care and if you ever need to chat please feel free to email me. good luck xxx
2007-01-04 00:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's tough. i had a stillborn and when i got pregnant the second time, it ended in miscarriage. i got pregnant a third time and was a wreck, but it was a success and i have a beautiful 6 year old. unfortunately something like 1 out of 5 pregnancies end in miscarriage, but since you've had 2 normal births prior to now, one miscarriage just seems like you had some crappy luck and no reason to think that anything will go wrong with this pregnancy.
good luck!
2007-01-04 04:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by texietoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easier said than done, but try to be optimistic and relax. I have two children and I am due to have another on Monday. In between my two children and this baby, I had two miscarriages. One at 7 weeks and one at 14 weeks. No explanation with either and all my children are with the same father so it probably wasn't down to genetics either. A friend of mine likes to think that the baby I am carrying now was not ready to be born the two pregnancies before, which is a nice thought. I however am a Christian and believe that what God wants for me, will be. Worrying may not make your pregnancy enjoyable. I will pray for you. God bless!
2007-01-04 00:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by tah75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your miscarriage, but I think this happens for a reason. As you have had 2 healthy children, I think you should just try and put it to the back of your mind (not easy I know) and enjoy this pregnancy. Try not to worry that it may happen again-look forward to the new arrival. Wishing you lots of luck. X
2007-01-04 00:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Somer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello huni, firstly you are not alone here. I came off the pill november 05, fell pregnant in the January 06, all going OK but something just was not right, kept losing old blood. Went for u/s scan at 7 weeks and all OK. Went back in March at 11 weeks only to be told that the baby had died inside me and had to removed via d & c. You cant imagine the heartbreak. Was pregnant again in the April, worried like mad thinking the same was going to happen, but ended up having a healthy baby boy. So please my thoughts are with you and try not to worry. Take care of you xx
2007-01-06 03:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A miscarriage once doesn't necessarily mean anything regarding your next pregnancy. Sometimes the chromosomes don't match up and the baby isn't viable. Just take it easy and don't over-exert yourself (I know... easier to say when you don't have 2 kids already). Do all the things you would normally do to have a healthy pregnancy - vitamins, good food, exercise....
good luck!
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2016-10-06 10:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a miscarriage before i got pregnant with my first and just before i had my second and i put it down to stress so id say try to stop worrying i know its hard but just think positive x
2007-01-04 00:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋