I have a social worker comes round and she is so bossy, I am finishing a degree in psychology and she told me not to do it this year, its alright for her she has 2 jobs and a husband with a good job, and i am on my own, she tells me what to do, and is younger than me, never been on her own. My grandaughter does not like her and she is meant to be going out with her, my son says she is bossy and thinks she is it. The kids see her bossing me around. I find her partronising. What should i do. i feel like telling her to get lost. I have brought up five kids and just cos my grandaughter has been playing up at school.
2007-01-03 23:21:21 · 15 answers · asked by dendeedenise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How can we help you? Want us to agree she's bossy? Well, okay, yeah, she's too bossy. Want us to call her ugly? Well, alright. I bet she's a dog.
Feel better?
2007-01-03 23:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by £º$∑® 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
that's not a tricky query or a remember of hypocrisy. whilst a guy professes to be "into" submissive females it shows that he likes females to do as he needs and do as she's informed. It in all probability additionally shows his widespread physique of techniques in direction of females. Professing to love the different is unquestionably laptop (and actually not likely in that exaggerated sort), yet in addition shows somebody who's keen to entertain the belief of lady as an equivalent companion, relatively than as a baby. As for individuals cheering or booing, that's GWS what do you anticipate? in the broader international there are nevertheless ameliorations of opinion.
2016-10-19 11:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the life of me i cannot understand why Miss Bossy-boots is discouraging you from studying. Heck, you should be encourage to carry on doing so. You just carry on she has nothing to do with your studies whatsoever. :)
2007-01-03 23:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't tell you what to do, she can only advise you. Can you speak to someone above her and explain things and ask if possible someone else could come. If you son is happy to could he be there next time and you both speak to her and tell her that she is far too bossy and is not helping the situation.
2007-01-03 23:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately they all seem to be like that. We tried to adopt a while ago and we're pretty decent people, but some of the social workers were so nasty and judgemental about us mainly based on the fact that my wife was adopted within her family. She is fine about it now, but they seemed to see problems where there were none.
I would suggest speaking to her superior, but I wouldn't be too confident with that even!
2007-01-03 23:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by voodoobluesman 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask for a different social worker. She should not be bossy she should be there to listen, help and encourage you to improve you and your families life.
2007-01-03 23:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure why you have a social worker, but if you can, yeah I would tell her to get lost. That's not good for your image around your kids, it's not good for your self-esteem, and it's just not fun. So yeah, if you can with few repercussions, ditch the jerkward :D
2007-01-03 23:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to whoever you need to go to and request another worker, if you can. Social workers are supposed to be helpful and friendly, not rude and judgmental.
2007-01-03 23:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U read psychology right ? by now psychology should tell u we are not all the same so dont complain....each person has a distinct character which u can never change,
2007-01-03 23:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
maybe u cud ask for a different social worker to come round, if u explain all of this im sure they will understand and have a more pleasent person come round xx
2007-01-03 23:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋