would you endure, and keep hoping and trying to change it but it never does after many years or would you leave and start over
2007-01-03 23:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Current Events
try and change
2007-01-03 23:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I don't like that many things at the same time in my life...I would...1) Seriously look at myself because there must be an issue with me personally that would cause me to dislike everything in my life and life itself, 2) Get over and forget the thought that life and everything in it was suppose to be the way I wanted it and/or perfect because there truly is no such thing as perfect and sometimes things don't always go the way people would like them to go (its a part of life), 3) evaluate why I made the choices I did and what is making me so unhappy about them now, try to fix the reasons why I am unhappy with them and be happy again. If I was this unhappy with all the things in my life I probably wouldn't even attempt to start over again because it would just turn out the same way because more than likely I would have issues with myself that I need to fix before anything would truly make me happy!!!!
This is just me and what I would do. Have a great day!
2007-01-04 07:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by JohnDoe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have children start over however if you have no serious problems a new life probably wouldn't be much different. If you have children I would try hard to make it work. But if everything is making you unhappy maybe it is you are you depressed? Maybe you need to focus on making yourself happy for a while because if your not happy with yourself no one or nothing will ever make you happy. I hope things get better for you.
2007-01-04 07:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by puzzled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that maybe YOU are the problem...
More specifically, a person's ATTITUDE, and not their circumstance is what really determines their level of happiness. The difference between a miserable rich person and a happy poor man is all about their attitude towards life.
Try cultivating a positive attitude and you might find you like and enjoy all those things you listed.
2007-01-04 10:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Zee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have made that many bad decisions in your life, what makes you think walking away won't be just another bad decision? Maybe you need to look at why you make bad decsions or why you are just not happy. It might not be the situation...it might be you. I'd suggest counseling.
2007-01-04 10:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing changed then the best bet would be to try to start over.
2007-01-04 07:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two words - Al Bundy (married with children)
2007-01-04 07:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by SEO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely make changes. 1st rule.....be true to yourself. If u cant be true to yourself how can u be true to others. Good luck
2007-01-04 07:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by english_rose10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋