which do u think shud be given more preference by a girl.. which is more important to be happy.. and at what stage
2007-01-03 22:42:26 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Career is important because a woman needs to be able to take care of herself and her kids no matter if the marriage works or not. A woman can have both a successful career and marriage. It is so important to be of sound mind and health and a strong marriage makes for wonderful kids. I vote for both.
2007-01-03 22:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live by the motto: We work to live, we don't live to work.
Career and independence are very important to a woman and now days we can have it all. But honestly, not a day goes by that I regret having my children and everything I've given up to make them happy. They are my life and they have made me the person I am today. I can not say the same had I taken the direction to follow a driven career path. I know I will never regret having my family, but had a chosen a different path to follow my career I would have always wondered if I had made the right choice.
2007-01-04 01:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever makes you happiest. No pat answer here. Some women would prefer to settle down and start a family while others want a career first.
My suggestion is to get as much education as you possibly can now so that if you change your mind, you can still pursue your new dream.
2007-01-03 23:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by extra_37 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I think we all should start out career minded. Girls can have it all. Career, Marriage and Family. Your happiness is your own.
2007-01-03 23:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already married - the marriage comes first. Period.
Otherwise, it's up to the individual. Personally, there is not a job in this world to me that is more important than my family. Unfortunately, I'm stuck with one.
2007-01-03 23:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your personality, but i guess u need to be secure financially then think of marriage at least for the sake of your coming children. good luck.
2007-01-03 22:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
career first then if you think you already reach your goal then you can concentrate on your marriage life by that time you are at peace with your life.
2007-01-03 22:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more independent you are before you get married, the better. If you are self-sufficient, you are more able to tell him you are not going to take his s*** and walk out.
2007-01-03 22:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by ssc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the sake and mental health of some poor helpless man, please dont marry.
2007-01-03 22:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋