I had this awful dream?

Question

I had a horrible dream last night and I can't get it out of my head, it was one of those ones where you wake up thinking it's real? I dreamt that my boyfriend started seeing a girl I know from school who used to get around a bit and I saw them out one night and we were talking fine until he started touching her all over right in front of me, then said they should be getting home and she winked at me and they left. I know it's a dream and doesn't mean anything but why did I have it and what can I do to stop thinking about it now!? My boyfriend used to be a player and I know he isn't any more but sometimes it bothers me, could that be why I dreamt this? I know it's a stupid question but please no stupid answers!

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Dreams are caused by a large number of factors. It could be nothing to do with your own social life and was probably due to discomfort. What caused such a topic could be a recurrent worry of something like this happening. Although, as you say, he is no longer a problem, your mind has returned to the time when you were in constant worry over your boyfriend. It could be reviewing a resolved dilemma or it could just be your sleeping position. Don't worry, it's just a dream. (Hope this isn't a stupid answer)

Answer 3

It probably means that you have some worries about him being faithful. It may be unconcious, but some part of you worries that he'll cheat on you. Talk to him. Tell him that you had this dream and that until now you never even realized that you cared about it. But apparently you've got some buried insecurity that you thought he should know about it. And then maybe you guys can talk about it. That's the only way you can have a really healthy relationship. Good luck.

Answer 4

Last week I dreamt a (not close) friend of mine was having an affair with my ex boyfriend, who happens to be the father of my youngest child........... haven't a clue what made me dream this but I was so angry when I woke up and I couldn't get it out of my head for the rest of the day. Its your subconscious playing psychological movies in your head and acting out scenarios to teach you how to deal with them. It doesn't mean its going to happen - it is just your doubts surfacing where its safe to express then - in your dreams.

Answer 5

Ok first of all a dream is yous ubconcious thoughts.. the things you didnt know you thought.. you are self concious about your boyfriend leaving you for a hoe..rightfully so proabably since you said he "used" to be a player.. I hate to tell you this but from my own expierience... once a player always a player.. we dont change we just get better at the game.

Answer 6

Dreams are not direct. Its just a symbol. This dream can mean anything. this can be a way to tell you how to leave a relationship or to stay in the relationship, but for now its a dream, so have a good night. Dont worry.

Answer 7

Either you don't trust the guy, you think he might be screwing around or you might be tired of seeing him and worrying that he doesn't want just you alone.

The other side of the coin says subconsciously you are more sexually promiscuous than you think and it's possibly a suppressed fantasy to see him with another woman OR to have another woman in the bedroom.

This a real problem for many women, especially younger women is lack of confidence. If you're hot, know it, show it and HE knows it, then you got NO worries!!

Answer 8

how do you know he's not still playing the field, you're dream could very well be your intuition i suggest you be a bit watchful of his manuvers not to get all jealous but how long ago has he stopped playing, once a player. face it unless you supernatrally whipped the man all of a sudden what have you done to compell his interests for you that has fulfilled his desires to dominate every woman he sees. you two aren't married. you should always trust your intuition.

Answer 9

I think you have a deep insecurity problem, you said your boy friend USED to be a player maybe you think he still could be, you didn't say how old you both are, but a lot of young blokes are driven by testosterone, if sex is handed to him on a plate, he will more than likely eat from that plate........but hey! life goes on.

Answer 10

It sounds to me as if you could have Ed Zacarys disease .... I remember a rather difficult situation an old friend of mine's sister once had, poor girl. Apparently she had not even been on a date for around nine years let alone had sex or got laid, so she was talking to one of her girlfriends who told her of a promblem she had with her husband three years before. Apparently they had not been sleeping together as they once did so in some desperation the two of them had gone to a Chinese herbalist doctor, they had eight sessions with him and to this day they had never been to happy together. So, after asking her friend if she would go to any lengths to find change she offered her friend the telephone number. Three days later my friend's sister made the call and made an appointment to see the doctor, very nervous she atteneded at the time offered. She went in and was offered a chair and he began taking her history and asking what her concerns were and why she had come to see him, after telling the doctor of her worries and complaint he asked her if she would go to any lengths in order to find change to which she said she was desperate for change. He then asked her to disrobe to take everything off and to get on her hands and knees and to then crawl across the room, mortified she complied with his directions, once having crossed the room with him making tutting noises she looked over her shoulder to which he motioned her to make the return journey, crawling all the way back to him, all the way seeing him shake his head and continuing his tutting. She then asked him what was wrong, why was he shaking his head and tutting, to which he said that what she had was a serious case ..... one of the worse cases he had seen, she was in semi shock and asked him what he meant and was there any way to remedy what he thought she had. She then asked what it was he thought she had to which he said Ed Zacary's disease, one of the worst cases of Ed Zacary's disease he had ever seen, blown away she said what is Ed Zacary's disease, I've never ever even heard of it, so he explained, it is when your butt looks Ed Zacary like your face.