Ouch, I would question this also. Maybe when she was pissed off at you she ran her mouth at work and now does not want to "lose face" over the things she said by showing up with you.
Thats a mabye. Remember we spend a lot of time with the people we work with. Work place romances are not uncommon. Is it possible that she has met someone at work and does not want you to meet them at this party? Im not saying she definately has but its a possibility to look at.
Also even though you say your fine now, most woman are still angry even when the men think its over and done with. Have you really resolved the issues or have they just been swept under the rug?
2007-01-03 22:00:04
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answered by just_trump_my_ace 2
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ok from what you're telling you me it sounds suspicious. If you guys were arguing and now everything is fine why still hold a grudge? You should really look into this.Not to give you any stalker advice, but follow her or ask her if there's somebody else that she's seeing! Cause thats what it sounds like.I dont go anywhere without my fiance, especially to PARTIES! She seems to be avoiding the question, so you need to be straight forward and persistent about it.Ask her if there is somebody else.If she says no then persist to say that you are going with her.Say you'll go with her, see what she's doing and where she's at and you'll leave happily.If she denies, then something is wrong! If she says why you're putting her through this say because she giving you reason to suspect something is wrong! Plain and simple.You're a human being and you have your insecurities! we all do! I would maybe follow her or see where she is going.Snoop through her cell phone and her outgoing calls if she has a cell phone. Good Luck and best of wishes!
2007-01-03 21:59:08
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answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3
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you're in a poor concern, there's little doubt approximately it. incredibly with 3 sons and daughters. first of all, I recommend which you be taught to renowned emotional blackmail for what it incredibly is. Examples: "Our kinfolk would be ruined." "i will kill myself." those are tries on her section to maintain you from changing the dynamic between you. you're in charge for your self & your little ones. Any alternatives she makes are her accountability. Secondly, I recommend that the two you & the youngsters pass out, or ask that she go away -- on a short-term foundation - 6 month minimum. it is not reliable for the youngsters to stay in this ecosystem and that they might desire to be the place stability, reliable habit and sanity reign (a minimum of diverse the time!) Then see what happens as quickly as you're aside. Thirdly - I recommend which you do couples counseling - If it revives & saves the marriage - you would be better & happier than you ever have been on your life. If the marriage isn't salvageable, then you definately could have the delight of understanding which you probably did a hundred% of what grew to become into available to keep the marriage, and you will additionally be arranged to start up life returned as a single father. the two way, it's going to be a reliable style to your little ones to ensure how adults attempt to ensure superb conflict. the two way, you win. the very suited of reliable needs to you.
2016-10-29 23:20:56
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answered by bonanno 4
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Friends maybe have put some strenghth, or bravery in her head. To not care if you care or not. Need to talk before things get lost totally.Secrets never stay hidden never. some are soon some seems like for ever, but they always come out. no matter. try to talk to her again, Her willingess came from somewhere. I would want to know, mainly for the sudden change of not changing her mind, and still going.
2007-01-03 21:54:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't like going to parties? Must be something or someone of intrest that would make her go without you. Not what you wanted to hear, but face it. She's intrested in something. Let her go alone and a few hours later pop in on her and see if she's even there.
2007-01-04 01:43:50
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answered by seahorse 4
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whatever problems u were having are now resolved, so there is no reason for u not to have been allowed to go, unless she has a relationship going on with someone else, or she may have talked about u to her co-workers and is embarrassed about it. but if she hates parties, than there is something going on. she shouldn't be leaving u out, u are her husband, she may be seeing someone else at work.
2007-01-03 22:59:51
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answered by jude 7
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I wouldn't read too much into it. She wouldn't be shy with her work colleagues. She probably feels more comfortable amongst them without your presence. Of course there may be more here, but I wouldn't press it this time.
2007-01-03 21:52:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe her New Years resolution is to give up going to places with you and starting to go out on her own. Might want to see if she has another date??
2007-01-03 21:49:40
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answered by Anonymous
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She probably is not even going to a new year drinks party..shes going somewhere else that she does not want you to know about...and probably with another man.
2007-01-03 22:02:01
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answered by Anonymous
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yeah, she wants to go see what kind of attention she can get without you around, you better hope it isn't much, or she may be getting it on without you.
2007-01-04 03:57:08
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answered by shane892000 2
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