and it bothers the both of us seeing each other with somebody else.... what does this mean...
2007-01-03 21:41:59 · 14 answers · asked by boodoll311 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it may mean two things..one, that you're still hang up on each other and may still have feelings left. or two, its because you both have been so used to being with each other for so long that it still isn't natural for you to see one with another..anyways, it'll all be resolved in time.either you'll get back together or get used to being not together =)
2007-01-03 21:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by WAHMaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean a lot of things and it could mean nothing also.It could mean you dont want to see him with anybody else or that you still love him or like him.It's normal. Sometimes things from the past that seem like they shoudnt be bothering you will still bother you. If you're feeling like that it sounds to me like you guys had something good going.if you had a bad relationship I dont think you would really care that he is with someone else because in the back of ur head you'd be saying ''yeah let that bi*ch deal with him!'' lol right? I mean it all depends, I really dont know why or how your relationship ended. AllI can say is remember WHY it ended in the first place.Do you really want to deal with it or go through it again? Try to stay away from each other as much as possible.You guys have obviously moved on if you're dating other people! Forget about him.Let it bother him instead of it bothering you.Think about what a good relationship you have NOW.Thats what counts.Let me live his life Girl, you've got your own to live.Make the best of it.Good luck sweety, happy new year!
2007-01-03 21:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a simple one.if you were with someone for a while and truely love the person that love will never truely die.we fall in love with them just things they do and who they are.
when we make a split it something they do or something they stop doing that made us love them in the first place.or it that they changed and we didnt love the new them.
when we meet them in a store or what ever we dont see them as the new them we see them as who we fell in love with and you want him morethat someone else has him. we all find us there to.but you have to stop and ask your self is it truly him or is it the past him you r missing.
a old love who you were very close and very intimited with is in front of you with his knew toy we find our self thinking about said person all the time what is he doing, is he with her right now.
another thing to think about when we start a knew fling we put out our best to be taken in and loved after awhile our true side starts to come out and when we see a ex with a new flame hes at his best hes charming and funny and verrry loveable if you give them time he will be at his worst before long and be with a new fling.
only you know whats in your heart and your true feelings.
if your not with someone special give it another run maybe it will be better than be fore but go into it with your eyes open the first sign thing are not adding up like it should get out before you come attached.
and remember going back to the past can bite you in the back they never let go of who you were with while they were gone.
but if your looking for a happy ending heres one....
i dated a guy when i was 14 and was so in loved we broke up becouse he was 17 and there were a lot of problems.
i never let go of the love i had for him and thought about him everyday for ever.
we met back up 8years later and the sparks wre still there and we started up again and thing were so better we have been together 13 years now and married for 10 of them. if i had not taken him back he and my son wouldnt be here now.but i never hear the end of my exs that were in between him .
and after i got him back i think of my other ex just as much and if i saw him with his wife and kids it would tear my heart out...
im no help im just as confused as you are why do we torcher our self this way...
but if there was issues then you both have to be willing to work on them becouse they will still be there..
2007-01-03 22:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by michelle e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because you're refusing to settle for that that's over between you 2. you want to inform your self that that's done. you at the instantaneous are not mutually, you at the instantaneous are not likely to get decrease back mutually and to give up imagining that you're. once you're saying you experience like you're nonetheless mutually, it truly is you refusing to settle for its done. Block all contact with him, and everytime he pops into your head, imagine of a reason you're more desirable off with out him (he's making me experience like crap although we are not mutually, he forgot to placed the rest room seat down etc) that's going to likely be complicated as its lengthy gone on see you later regardless of the indisputable fact that that's something you gotta artwork at. Get out of the domicile and do issues so that you at the instantaneous are not taking under consideration him :) solid success x
2016-10-16 23:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that u both made a great mistake,u guys shouldn't break ur sweet relationship.
U both r made 4 each other.
Plz say sorry to him and close all the doors of sadness & open the windows of happiness...
Best of luck
2007-01-03 21:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mean nothing... it could just be a case of you not wanting him... but not really wanting someone else to have him either..but then again it may mean you have some unresolved issues...
take some time to think about what it is that really bugs you about seeing him with another girl.
2007-01-03 21:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means you still like him ask yourself if it is so then go ahead and win him back don't ever let aperson u love just go off bcoz of silly matters and for whatever u broke up try to solve that issue rather than escaping from it and losing the person u love
ALL THE BEST
2007-01-03 21:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a natural reaction. with time it will ease off. its a feeling 'he/she belongs to me' and a sense of jealousy sweping over each other. thats part of the possesive nature of love - even thought your no longer with the same person.
dont worry, see more people and learn to let go. wish the best for your ex and hope the best for you. if your truely ment to be with each other - you would not have broken off. life is funny - yet its hard to smile at the humor
2007-01-03 22:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by CHAMaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
means tht u both have feelings for each other and that maybe you two should get back together
2007-01-03 22:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unresolved issues. You should talk. Could be you still have something to accomplish together or you need to resolve your feelings.
2007-01-03 21:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋