he is 48 years old Im 29 years old
He doesn't want children- and he has a big excuse for that,
He always say something for any question, nothing reasonable to me based what had lived in the past, but may sound ok for others.
Even for my self if i wasn't in the situation.
WHy I dont leave him? HE likes this S**** life that we live?
or he just waiting for me to leave... HE knows i dont have place to go i don't family and friends who can really get me home place.
HE really is selling me? what????? yeah that is hard to explain , but any ways, I'm so scared again
2007-01-03 21:25:42 · 11 answers · asked by JUST ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's what you get when you marry your father. good luck with that
2007-01-03 22:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so unhappy that you want to leave, why do you want a child?
You are 29 years old, not a child and married a guy that is old enough to be your Dad and I can't blame him for being 48 years old and not wanting children at this point in his life; but his is something you should have discussed and come to an agreement to BEFORE you got married.
Don't rely on other people to get you out of your situation, get a job and come up with an exit strategy to leave him if you are unhappy in the relationship. If he is abusive, contact a local women's bureau or homeless shelter and they could help get you out of the house and a place to stay while you look for a job and get back on your feet.
2007-01-03 21:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared of? I have to ask you this, are you set on having children of your own or have you even giving the thought to the possibility of not having children? You don't have to give birth to feel like your a part of whats going on. You could spend your time with the milliions of children who don't have anybody to call mom or dad for the millions of different reasons. I wish more ppl would realize that having children does not really change anything for the better. I love being a mom & I am not bad mouthing it. I just realize now that nobody ever said I had a choice, it was just engrained in me that I would have my own children in this overpopulated world. I have no family/friends as well & having kids doesn't bring you any, it just makes it harder, especially when I realize they have nobody who is happy to see them at holidays or sends them a birthday card. As for your guy, you have to decide for yourself if he is really being selfish & manipulating you. You have to be able to talk to him & be a 100% honest or he's not worth it.
2007-01-03 21:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want children thats his choice. But if you want children find your self a man that feels the same. He 48 yrs old and is set in his selfish ways and enjoys his freedom from responsibity and doesnt want thhat responsibity. your 29 your still young find yourself someone more your own age or at least a man that wants the same as you.
2007-01-03 22:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by babydollgem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-03 21:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by mind r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is happy with his life, maybe u should have gotten to know him better before u married him, get yourself independent on him, get a job, save some money, and don't be afraid, he knows u have to put up with whatever, he knows your weaknesses, so make some changes, don't depend on him, than if he won't listen to u, get out of the marriage.
2007-01-03 23:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ok?
Didn't you two clear up the fact if you were or weren't going to have children after you married?
2007-01-03 22:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there Drugs involved here.
2007-01-03 21:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Zip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
midlle life crisis???
2007-01-03 21:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make no sense
2007-01-03 21:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋