I love my bf he loves me, we are lovely together...But I have fears...I know thatt nothing is forever and I am afraid that we'll break up I'll suffer. I am trying to impose myself to love him less...but it seems impossible...Am I reacting the wrong way?
2007-01-03 21:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by iunona_33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 yrs. you know i went throug the same thing a little over a year ago. I was affraid of getting hurt. and i told myself if its meant to be it will work itself out. After telling myself that i let go of that fear and our relationship is growing stronger. On top of that he moved two hours away for college and our love is still getting stronger. KEEP IN MIND, IF ITS MEANT TO BE IT WILL WORK ITSELF OUT, GOD HAS A PLAN FOR EVERYONE.
2007-01-03 21:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest with him and tell him your fears. I think you need some reassurance from him. It takes some people more time to open up and trust others because of past relationships that did not work out. Talk with him and you may find that he may have fears as well.
2007-01-03 21:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by SparklyThingz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Nothing is forever, so enjoy the ride...It could be a voyage or just a short ride...whatever make it the best it can be...don't worry....
2007-01-03 21:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is.
Fear of future shouldn't ruin your present.
Nothing is forever that is why your love is so valuable regardless of nothing being forever.
Love is indeed forever. And at last friendless life is flowerless plant.
2007-01-03 21:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by peacemakers3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you carry on thinking and acting that way, you'll cause the break up you fear.
You should just relax and be happy in your love
2007-01-03 21:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to ruin this lovely relationship because of your irrational fear of losing him. you must stop this way of thinking and enjoy what you both have, or you will seriously end up regretting it. talk to him and tell him what you`v been thinking, he may be able to reassure you.
2007-01-03 21:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by splee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should improving on love him more, that way your inconcient will love him less. Self-inverse phycology.
2007-01-03 21:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by mothman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋