My friends bf wanted to set me up with his best friend, who i thought i could never love...but i fell head over heels, madly, truly, deeply in love with him...and he had a gf who he was sure he was going to leave because of how badly she treats him...but today he told me he was going to give her another chance...and it broke my heart. Earlier this week, he wasn't answering my calls or txt's, and i knew something was wrong. So i cried for two hours that day, wanting him to like me, wanting him to say he left her and that he loves me. So today he told me the news that he was going to stay with her, and again i cried for two hours...and i still feel like crap. Does anyone else feel like this? my heart hurts so bad......and i cry every time i think of never seeing him again, or never hearing his voice...or looking into his eyes, or getting heart-melting hugs from him...does anyone elses heart ache tonight?
2007-01-03 20:36:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sweetie how much time was it before you met him till you fell in love till he told you about his gf he should have been totally finished with her before he got with you there wasnt that much time in between all of this for you to get that connected to a guy that already had a gf i think baby girl that you.... well when we are introduced with an opportunity to meet someone being single and realized there are no obstacles to worry about between you and another we will at times put our heart out without thinking because our minds allow our hearts to be free. it is a relaxing, calming, and warming feeling to know that we are involved with someone who is interested in us. we even get this feeling im sure youve felt it before when we bump into someone who is at first glance attractive and the both of you laugh because it was funny how you may have bumped into each other laugher is vunerability leaving the body and expressed welcoming of the soul.
relax dear take a breath and take a walk on a sunny day with an open colorful umbrella twirling it happily, the attention you'll get alone, will make you smile.
trust me give yourself a hug for me.
2007-01-03 20:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First Of All I'm Sorry That You're Hurt Hunnie. I Know Your Pain. I Broke Up With My Ex Cause I Couldn't See My future With Him...I Thought I Was Too Good For Him Knowing That He Was Madly In Love With Me. I Loved Him Too But There Was Just Too Much Differences. Well Shortly After That He And His Friends Were Chillin' And This Girl Liked Him And They Hooked Up. He Was Hurt And He Needed Something Close For Him To Feel Better Namean??
He Was Still Callin' Me Wanting Me Back. I liked It That It Seemed Like He Loved Me So Much. Begging Me Back. Telling Me That He Can't Be Alone. Well That Was A CLUE That Another Girl Must Be With Him But I Wasn't Thinking Like That. I Was Full Of Myself. Then I Found Out Everything And I Was Soo Hurt. I Got Lonely-I Wanted Him Back Now. He Tried Coming Back Also But He Didn't Wanna Hurt That Girl And He Was Afraid Of Me Hurting Him Again. So He Still Called Me. He Was Basically Cheating On His Girl With Me. I Cried Knowing That Some Girl Was Sleeping With My Ex Man. It Hurt Me So Bad. I Cried So Bad I Thought I Was Going To Die Without Him. But Then After That I Found Out That I Don't Really Love Him. It Was Best For It To Happen Like That. I Put A Stop To Everything And Moved on. My Friends Were There For Me And I Tried Doing More Things. Now I've Found My ONE&ONLY TRUELOVE.
YOUR STORY ANSWER
Well Gurl...Never Take That Risk Of Dealing With A Man That's Already In A Relationship. No Matter What He Says About His Gurl. If He Didn't Wanna Be With Her...Then He Simply Wouldn't. But He Always Seemed To Keep Telling You That He Gonna Get Rid Of Her And Then Yawl Can Be Together. But You Should've Waited First For Him to DO...Not SAY. He Cares About Her Deeply And you Were Probably Just His Rebound. To Me He's Confused Or He's A Player. Players Can Say Anything To A Gurl With No Regrets. He Doesn't Know What He Wants Maybe.... If He Went Back To A Girl That Treats Him Bad....Then That Says It All... Or Maybe He Just Told You That. What Kinda Real Man Is Gonna Let A Woman Treat Him Like ****???
You Need A Real Man
A Man That Knows What He Wants.
He Basically Cheated On His Gurl With You Too. Well He Did. This Is Real Life. It's Not A Soap Or A Movie.
If You Probably Already Gaved Your Body to Him Than He's Probably Thinking It's Not Worth It. He wants To Stick to Something He's Used Too.
Or He Has Very low Self Esteem.
Sorry I Could Write More But Damn Do You Understand Me. Try Doing More Things To Keep Busy And Learn From This Experience So It Doesn't Happen To You Again.
Before You Fall in Love Make Sure That Person Isn't In Love With Another.
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2007-01-03 21:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the song goes, "nobody knows where the heart leads us". So, there is not much you can do to change his mind. All you can do is to be patient, give him his time since it is sure she will not treat him nice this time and this "second Chance" will go to waste. After that, maybe he will come to you. The question is : Should you wait for someone under such circumstances?? I believe, you should not. Pick up you pieces, take your time and find new interests and new friends. I know it hurts now, but it is too soon..... In time, you will certainly feel well. Good luck
2007-01-03 22:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do! I feel so blessed to have such an amazing husband. I can't wait until he and I can start a family together. He's an amazing person, and I'm amazingly proud of him for what he does. He's currently deployed to Iraq, but I still feel like the luckiest girl in the world to be married to him! Did I mention... amazing amazing amazing? It's refreshing to hear from people who are happy with their marriage!!!
2016-03-29 07:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this sorta love isn't love in the first place.
You said you saw him and then fell in love - that's physical love only, my dear. Not the real love that would emerge by the mutual understanding of minds and bodies.
Anyway, just think that HE WAS NOT LUCKY ENOUGH TO GET YOU and move on...you've got your entire life to live - and there are more people who'd willingly help you get out of this than THAT GUY
2007-01-03 21:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off by letting him go back to his established relationship with the other bimbo. Be thankful that he was up-front with you in keeping you posted as to his intentions.
Now, get on with your own life and don't look back!
2007-01-03 20:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by lalanmeyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,mine. I was STUPID enough to fall for a guy ON LINE ! So,how strange is that?! We've been talkin for a month now and yesterday I talked to him from another id,to see if he falls for it,and he did!Of course,he didn't know it was me !If you want to chat some more ,we look for me on messenger.The bottom line is that you are not alone...
2007-01-03 20:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel... just let him know...and if he still stays with her...cut him off completely....delete every e-mail text message throw out anything that came from him...or reminds you of him...just don't have anything around you that reminds you of him b/c you have to move on
2007-01-03 20:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by 1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i dnt love sme1 then i may never love her in my life, n if i start loving sme1 then i love as if shz only there in dis world 2 whom i love... I also dnt know that hw many of u feel this way?....
2007-01-03 20:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is a Gamble
2007-01-03 20:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋