2007-01-03 19:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by yearning 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax:
a romantic atmosphere
pleasant, comfortable surroundings
a partner who they really like
a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore
a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.
Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.
Please bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.
What to do
In summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:
don't be in a rush.
don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.
talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
always create a romantic atmosphere.
make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don't rush into 'attacking' her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she wants.
use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris. (If she is over 40, it may be a good idea to use some additional lubrication from a chemist or a sex shop).
remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
sometimes encourage her to run your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by really listening to her when she suggests a sex position, or a particular caress.
2007-01-04 04:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a vibrator on the market called a Rabbit. Women I know who have used it said its the best climax they have ever had.
2007-01-04 04:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by SLATE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well that's pretty different for men and women. As a man, be there.... you're good. As a woman though it is on a completely different scale and different for every woman. Gonna need more info brother.
2007-01-04 03:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by mjcalohan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of fireworks along with some real good music and then maybe an encore.
2007-01-04 03:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Zip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the only time you need to be totally selfish, and give in to all thoughts, and feelings, this is the time to think just about YOU.
2007-01-04 04:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Daydreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A confident, caring partner who knows what he/she is doing or makes up for not knowing what they are doing with enthusiasm.
2007-01-04 04:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good book.
2007-01-04 03:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Garin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on over to my apartment and I'll show you...you better be a woman.
2007-01-04 03:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
its all in the head ( the brain that is)
2007-01-04 03:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by razorsharpdut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay....
2007-01-04 03:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋