I'm engaged to marry my gf in October. She told me to watch out for women who will be more flirty around me because I'm now engaged. Why does this happen? the moment I told my coworkers I was engaged, some girls became more flurtacious. I love my fiance, so I'm not going to act on anything with anyone else; but still, why do girls like engaged/married men?
2007-01-03 18:57:03 · 15 answers · asked by gato_loco_since_1979 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe the women felt that your relationship was not going to go to the next level (engagement) and had been waiting for your relationship to dissolve before moving in, but upon discovering the seriousness that you are about to commit to, the women are trying to fight their way in.
It could also be that some women are vindictive... While I find it disturbing, I know that some women will seek out married/engaged men because it "boosts their esteem" to know that the man would put his committed relationship at risk for "the honor" of spending time with the woman.
2007-01-03 19:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All i can tell you is that anyone who is unavailable becomes attractive. This only applies to people who don't want to commit to any person in particular so when they find some one who is with someone they tend to cling there. Most of the ladies who will sought you out will be unavailable emotionally at first so watch out, and don't throw your love away. Think about it, better the person you know than the angel, who is showing signs of interests in you. I have been there, done that so i know!
2007-01-03 19:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by lovinglife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard of that. Hmm. Since you're committed to her she has nothing to worry about anyway, right? I don't think every woman has bad intentions. Some people are ok human beings. Some women are too insecure and think everyone is after their man. That gets exhausting, so be careful.
2007-01-03 18:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are attracted to an engaged guy. I think it's attractive that a man is willing to commit to one woman. I wouldn't act on it but I think a lot of women think "If he's able to commit to her, maybe he could commit to me".
2007-01-03 19:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think engaged guys are the least bit sexy, unless they are engaged to me. People either like you or they don't. I don't think your status has anything to do with it, your fiance is just jealous and insecure.
2007-01-03 19:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz there is no future nor commitment with an engaged guy. But if they try it with unengaged guy, he will take it serious and further to embarrassing situations.
2007-01-03 19:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mafesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you work around sluts...jk;). It may have somthing to do with the the fact that you are taking that big step to 'settle down' and be a one woman man...this is ultimately what many women want and with that ring...you're exactly that.
2007-01-03 19:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Waiting to Scream* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're imagining things... People get happy in general when you tell them you're engaged or getting married, perhaps you have misconstrued it as flirtatiousness?
2007-01-03 19:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men are often the unsuspecting currency women trade in.
"I'll show that b*tch -- I can get her man with my mad elite p*ssy skills any time I want."
Women disrespect each other *so* much this way.
2007-01-03 19:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subconsciously, there's the knowledge that you are marriageable material, or that you are "doing something right". That's fairly attractive.
2007-01-03 18:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋