For me these are sick women that don't have any self respect, values and dignity. No question asked, just my point of view.
2007-01-03 18:25:28 · 23 answers · asked by Miss k 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good point "Krabcake."
I know the married men are as guilty, but what kind of guy would cheat on his wife with someone close to her?
2007-01-03 18:55:00 · update #1
My point of view also but it's not guts that they have it just means that they are very easy and have no morals. I must agree though with those who said the guys are just as guilty but some of these women act like 2 bit hookers to get our men. I know It is no excuse but if your husbands have someone throwing themselves at them constantly it would be a real struggle not to give in. The stupid part about it is that these women have no brains, don't they realise they are only being used like the dirty little tramps that they are. If they think that is love, well l guess you are so right they are definitely sicko's !! As for what coolitz said, in my case it was the woman who initiated it alright. She actually asked for her phone number to be passed on to my husband knowing he was married. I had met her, when l was with my husband. She just would not leave him alone !! Dumb SL#T and they wonder why we get angry.
2007-01-04 02:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's being kind of simplistic to say that these women are sick, have no self-respect, values or dignity. Think of your friends, cousins, sisters, maybe even your mother. These are the women that are cheating with "other women's men." It would be simple if "the other woman" were just some sick pig, then those of us that get cheated on can feel just a tad more superior. But it isn't the case. Odds are, when your husband/boyfriend cheats, it'll be with someone you once liked and respected, not some cheap valueless scumbag.
2007-01-04 02:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It isn't good for a woman to date a married man, it's just as wrong though for a married man to be out looking and dating. He should end his relationship first. Obviously there's a problem or married people wouldn't be out looking. Often times married people don't let on that they are married right away. I think there are many scenario's. There are often reasons that those things happen that obviously others aren't privy to. Then there are some who are just totally unfaithful and don't care. The good news is you don't have to be one of them. It's a choice. Best wishes.
2007-01-04 02:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree. NO values, no self respect, no dignity or self worth.and I cannot believe how many married men are out there acting like they are single.
2007-01-04 03:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by LaurenElyse 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, sounds like someone's husband just ran off with another woman... Well, you know, I can't believe the guts of the women who marry a cheater, and then blame everyone else for it but themselves. It's not an answer, just my point of view. Everyone is responsible for their choices - wives, husbands, and "other women".
2007-01-04 02:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It isn't guts, these people completely lack ANY MORAL fiber. These women & the married men they cheat with are pathetic, disrespectful bottom of the barrel scum.
I TOTALLY AGREE with your point of view.
Even when my husband & I were only dating, we made it perfectly clear to each other that if we felt the need to cheat, be honest about it. Then we will get a divorce because neither of us is willing to put up with a cheater, someone we cannot trust & someone who cannot be trusted. Flat out, you want to cheat, pack up your crap & get out. No arguement & NO taking them back.
2007-01-04 02:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
i think the guy is to blame for this scenario. unless the girl is the one who initiated everything. but most of the times it the guys who are guilty of being unfaithful and courting other girls when they are already married. there are some girls who don't know that the guy is married. and usually it's too late when they find out that the guy is really married. they have already fallen for the guy.
2007-01-04 02:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i understand how you feel. they are not sick. this whole thing you mentioned is dated back in cleopatra's age or way before that. this issue will never go away. the only thing you can do is to deal with it and make sure your sweetie knows values too.
2007-01-04 03:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Friv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell u my opinion on the subject, i can't believe the women or the man who happens to be the one on the side who think ,that the person whom they are with is going to treat them any different ,then they treated their spouse. lol that's what i find crazy about the whole subject.
2007-01-04 02:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by rachel m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Agreed. And the same applies to men! n
2007-01-04 02:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋