why does it pain when a guy n girl make love?

Question

why does when people do sex then it pains a girl a lot?

i m asking about people opinion and not about myself ok guys

why do virgin feel discomfort durin g that period of time?

Answer 1

Sex should not hurt in general...sex that does hurt tend to hint at a problem. The main causes of real discomfort are infection, some STDs, or things like endometriosis, PID (pelvic inflammatory disease), etc. If the pain is always there, she needs to see a gynecologist to find the source of the problem.

Pain during 'the first time' is usually caused by the breaking of the hymen. Not all women, but most, experience some discomfort the first time they have sex, but it shouldn't be unbearable.

Look at these sites
http://www.webmd.com/content/article/107/108501.htm
and
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/painfulintercourse.htm

Answer 2

There are a few reasons that it could hurt during sex:

as someone as already stated - LUBE. Lube is one of girls best friends. Use it liberally, and you will feel the benefits too.

an infection like thrush

or there are instances out there for ppl who suffer from vaginal pain/discomfort (vulvodynia - google it) - whether it's from something wrong physically or if she's not ready for sex the girl can be anxious and this can cause spasms and be painful "down there" also (this usually occurs if she's had a not so good sexual experience in the past)

Answer 3

Normally it shouldn't hurt her at all. Virgins will experience discomfort.

Answer 4

if she is in pain, she has a physical problem, like an infection. see a doctor, or else you are way too rough with her, or you are very much overly endowed in that area. if it hurts she wont enjoy it.

Answer 5

i feel bad for you...try some lube

Answer 6

what?