Can I be pregnat?!?

Question

I had sex with my bf on the 17th of december. It wasent planned so we didnt used a condom, we didnt have one. He didint ***, and he said he had problems cumming. I still got worried. I was a virgin, so I am very naive in some things and I start looking for information. Read about precum, and the chances of still getting preg. I am very scared, though. My period is very irregular, my last one was one november 14, it usually was taken around 45 or more to get my next period. it may be because im a little overweight, (160 for 5 5") or stress. I thought I was getting my period, because I got a huge pimple, lower back ache, and tummy bloated. And i also had a brownish spott. But then it change to discharge, and i have been having light clear discharge, but no period. Then I read about implanation bleeding. I am 19, fully aware i dont want to marry tmy bf, I want to study, and yet If Im pregnat Don't want to abort. But I dont know if I am. Dont know whent to do a pregnacy test... Help plis

Thank you everyone, never thought I could get so many answeres in such a little time. I am more calm now, and tommorow, that will be the first thing i'll do. (buy a test)

Answer 1

take a test

Answer 2

Well, i am a guy, but my wife and i have trying to successfully keep pregnant for 3 years now (2 miscarriages), I am a doctor, but not this type. heres my advice, conclusion...

If your last menstrual periodwas on Nov 14th, even if you are irregular, that is quite a long time ago. you about 50-55 days out now and i do know that the semen can stay healthy in your body for 3 days. I am pretty sure the eggs in your body can be there for around 3 to 4 days also.

Stress and worrying can delay or even cause you to skip you period as well...

I would go to your local planned parenthood, get a test taken, and make your decision with a professional that can help you and not make things worse. Whatever you do, do not get married to someone just because you share a child.....

GL

Answer 3

well... i'm sorry to hear that, but honest, if you are stressed it will cause your period to be later. implantation bleeding is a light pink and doesn't last long, and a lot of woman (including me) don't get that. if your period is normally that irregular you might want to get that checked out. my younger sister had that problem (her period was EXTREMELY irregular), and went to the obgyn and found out that she has polycystic ovarian syndrom, so you might want to get that checked out to make sure it isn't anything serious. i would advice you to go the the drug or grocery store and get a pregnancy test, so you would know and not have to worry anymore. the pregnancy tests at the store can tell a few days after your missed period (i got pregnant on the 26th and got a positive reading by the 5th of the following month.) then a huge weight could be lifted off of your shoulders. if you are, there is always adoption, and open adoptions if you are wanting. i wish you the best, and if you need any help honestly, let me know. i have been there (21 yrs old, and just had twin boy and girl in november) and can help you through it, might be easier when you talk to someone, and someone who you don't exactly know. good luck!!


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Answer 4

OMG...your story is almost exact as mine. I had sex on the 16th, through we did use a condom. Im 18 and i was a virgin. My period also is irregular, over the summer I had no period for 2 months. My last period was the first week of November. I dont think Im preganant Im just paranoid. I have failed multiple pee preg. tests but im going to Crisis Preg. Center 2morrow for a blood tests just 2 be sure. Good Luck and Stay Strong

Answer 5

If you are pregnant, it takes 2+ weeks after the egg is fertilized to get a positive pg test. The sperm from your bf can live in your body up to 6 days (high end) waiting for an egg. If you had sex on 17th Dec, you could get pregnant by 23rd at latest, add 2 weeks to that and test, if no period.

That sounds like a really hard situation and I wish you well.

Answer 6

Light clear discharge could just be ovulation discharge, so you may not be pregnant and just getting your period soon. just do a preg test if you miss your next period. be careful from now on!! You shouldnt have had sex if you didnt have a condom!!! But now dont get too worried, and hopefully everything will work out for the best. best of luck!!

Answer 7

It is going to be very difficult to tell whether you are pregnant or not because your cycles are so sporatic. You will need to test, and if you want to test often, you can start testing now, then every 2 days after that, because once the baby implants, the hcg levels double every 2 to 3 days. Typically, sperm can live for up to 5 days, but I had a friend who had live sperm in her 11 days after she and her husband had sex. That is not typical, though.

I've heard that you can get pregnancy tests at the dollar store for a dollar, and that's a great price. But you may also want to go to your local Crisis Pregnancy Center, if there is one, and they will test for free. Look in the phone book under abortion alternatives.

Answer 8

Since it is time for your period and you have already missed it I'd say take the test. If you are pregnant you can still raise the baby and study. If that is not an option you can find a good adoption agency and give the baby to them. I'm not preaching but next time if you don't have a condom say no.

Answer 9

Take an over the counter pregnany test... take two if you want. The *stress* you are experiencing can contribue to your potentially missing period. When this all works itself out you should consider taking birth control pills to help regulate your period... not to mention avoid unplanned pregnancy. Please also keep in mind that the rythmn method is not foolproof... it was found that some women experience multiple ovulations at different times during their mentral cycle

Answer 10

Just to let you know... it's pregnant... and pregnancy. Since you are irregular go to Dr for blood preg test, or get store test, which may be inaccurate due to irregularity. Your symptoms could VERY well be pre-period symptoms.

Answer 11

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