25yrs lesbian dating 21 yrs lesbian for over two years. She lives with over-protective mum who doesn't accept us, who has constantly for our two years made her fight to see me as much as possible, she has told me she loves me but can't do this anymore and slowly been slowing down contact between us. In other words she is choosing her mum's wishes over her own. Denying her happiness with me. Since her mum threatened her with leaving her and not letting her see her little sister ever again if she stays with me I work with her and so do a bunch of my friends. They saw her at work today and said she looks miserable. She still loves me. I need to tell her how I feel from the bottom of my heart. I would marry her anyday. Should I let her figure it out or go ahead with my heart felt letter and what should I say. I want her back. I don't want to make her situation any worse than it is, I just want to help her with her choice and final decision. She needs to know how much i love her.
2007-01-03 17:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you love her you have to fight for her,if you don't you might regret it later on down the years
2007-01-03 20:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just dumb. I don't know how old her sister is, and I'm sure she loves her...but that is her FAMILY and she WILL see them again. Tell her how you feel. She's 21, I'm guessing that her lil sis is the only thing keeping her living at home. And probably also guessing that she is doing some raising of this little one. If I were her I'd just leave. But I'm probably assuming too much. Write her the letter...tell her how you feel...give her a little while to come around (a couple weeks maybe) and then move on. If it is meant to be, she'll come back to you. When? who knows?
2007-01-04 01:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so damm cute go ahead my sister and congratulations on that love i wish i have someone who will love me like that i say go ******* ahead and write it and tell her in person 2 if i was you ill do whatever to be able to move in with her and take care of her althoug i know that you guys are young still and i dont know your situation but i believe that you guys will last and survive anything good luck from my heart
2007-01-04 05:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by revolution 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, she needs to grow up and stand up to her mother. She should not be being manipulated at the age of 21 by threats like that. Her mother is a sick, manipulative person. But your gf allows it.
2007-01-04 03:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your mind is already made up. Go ahead with the letter. At least then you wont suffer wondering what might have been.
2007-01-04 01:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by butterflykisses_1897 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write it, let her know, sneak in, do whatever, in war and in love, anything is possible.. tell her that you are just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground, and what have you found? the same old fears... i wish you were here
2007-01-04 01:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by myFEARisALIEN! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋