My girlfriend slept with some one and now she is begging me to accept her, promising that she will remain true to me rest of my life.
I can’t accept this personally I need to forget her please advice me how I could this? I don’t have any thought choosing another girl.
2007-01-03 17:27:26 · 8 answers · asked by jack k 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm assuming you mean forget her as in getting away from her.
First of all, just don't believe her. Don't listen to her, don't talk to her, just don't do anything that has to do with her because if you give her a little attention, she'll somehow worm her way back into your life.
Just let things cool down for a while and you and she will both eventually get over it. No matter how cliche it is, all things heal with time.
2007-01-03 18:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship, circumstances always come into place... its own choice whether you forgive her... or in god's time. Think if you are the girl, what would be the reaction of yours? Think that the event is a lesson for both of you... and not just to depressed yourself... if you really loved her, you would accept her whether she does the right thing or the wrong one... in that way, ur relation would be much stronger than ever...
2007-01-04 01:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by DeathNote 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can erase your memories.
Well, not maybe you, but some people, like me.
Everytime something bad happens (and I cannot remember bad times because of selective memory), I sort of... eject my tape.
You know ow parents always keep home-made tapes of a child's life? If something bad happens, I go to the tape labeled "Teen Life: Year 15: Day of Loneliness" (so to speak) and just destroy it.
It's all mental, but it works.
I can't remember anything but happy thoughts. It's weird... but you should try it if you REALLY want to forget something.
<3
stranger.
2007-01-04 01:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not forget, you can change. You just have to change the way you view the memory, from "i wish i had that back i cant get over it" to...."it was great while it lasted, but it was also a learning experience, on to bigger and better"
you can not erase memories, but you can change what they mean to you, beacause of your better judgement.
2007-01-04 01:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Akshun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love can heal, if your love is true and strong from your heart. You never forget what hurt you but Love bury it as deep as it can. And if you love, you feel inspired and dedicated and able to forget almost anything.
2007-01-04 06:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by someone [: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try forgiving her instead of forgetting her.
2007-01-04 01:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't get over her, you'll just learn to live without her.
2007-01-04 01:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill your gf so that u wont see her again
2007-01-04 02:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋