Damn...I am a devoted christian woman..but I am sexually frustrated.There is the guy..who is attractive..and he's always nice to me..he came up to me and asked me why I was sad..and he want to see me smile, when I see him my heart start to race, and I think of him in so many other's(if you know what i mean) I'm not a hoe..but damn..it's making me feel bad, these sexual thoughts of him..I know it's lust...but should I feel bad for these thoughts...and what can I do to stop..it's hard for me to sleep..What should I do
2007-01-03 16:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
1st of all, I think it is an oxymoron to say the D-word and then say you are a devoted Christian woman. I am a devoted Christian and I never have and never will cuss. 2nd, I think it is normal for all human beings to have sexual thoughts, just every time they pop into your head, try to think of something different. Just don't do anything that you will regret later on in life!
2007-01-03 16:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by jlee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you asking these worldly idiots advice on something that may be chanlleging you spiritually? You know you should be married to have sex. What's gonna happen when you find a good christan man to marry and he finds out your not a virgin? I think if you really must, then masterbate without penetration. You should get a second opinion on that, but definitly don't have sex until you are married. And, don't go and cheat thinking you'll just fool around. You'll either end up going all the way, making things bad between you and this guy, or foresaking your faith. Stay true to your faith. And, I hope that your faith is in the Lord Jesus Christ. "Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God." Is this guy even a Christian? You know what is right, follow through. Or the next thing you know you might wined up another exibitionist, Haris Hilton slut. Screwing right and left and pucking on yourself. Is that what you want? Do what is honorable.
2007-01-04 00:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well DAMN for devout christian you like the word Damn. LOL. Sexual frustration is normal and no you shouldnt feel bad. We are all human. I am catholic, it was shoved down my throat as a kid. I am not devoted and I believe alot of Christian belief is based on someones idea of a perfect world and wrote a book to try to get people to do what has been defined as right and pure in thought, speech, and actions. It has become a basis for more opinion creating more animosity in the world. Religion, racial issues, politics, are all matters of opinion not law and the difference in opinion is what causes alot of the problems in this world. You are who you are, you think what you think, you say what you say, do what you do and act as you please. Its your God given right and God made you. What the church preaches because thats what they are there to do doesnt make life outside of the stained glass windows any different. Its a brainwashing tactic more than it is a guide to your ticket to heaven. Dont feel bad, dont feel guilty. You can not control feelings, emotional or physical. Thats what pharmacys are for.
2007-01-04 00:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here's the deal. You said it first: You Are Sexually Frustrated! I don't care if you are Christian, sexuality is a part of all of us. You gotta have it if you ain't gettin' it. It's not like you're letting your God down. That, my dear, is human nature.
2007-01-04 00:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by queensassey 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
basically three choices, 1.remain devout. 2.*cough* relieve the tension in your alone time. 3.go for it.
2007-01-04 00:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if god didn't intend for you to have sex and fantasize he wouldn't give us those feelings, we're humans on this earth and we have the right to enjoy ourselfs with in moderation.
2007-01-04 00:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to hell.
2007-01-05 21:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋