after a year of having a baby and vagaina feels lose and my boyfriend thinks that i had sex with someone but i did'n't but he doesn't beleave me. what do think.
2007-01-03 15:40:03 · 11 answers · asked by baby 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yes it changes.it never really goes completly back i only had one child but their was a differance .
2007-01-03 15:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women experience this, the best way is to try kegal exercises(tighting the vagina walls by squeezing, to find out try it when you go pee and stop then go) You can do this anytime. Or there's balls at the sex store. Go around a find ways to tighten it. Or he'll just have to learn to live with it.
2007-01-03 15:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural to feel looser after having a baby. what your boyfriend is saying makes no sense. Having sex with more than one partner does not make your vagina looser but giving birth does.
Give him a book on the subject. He's being ignorant
2007-01-03 15:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kegal exercises really do help. I have had three children and do them frequently, and it really does work. As for BF being a jerk...well..I think he doesn't understand female anatomy very well.
2007-01-03 15:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by PennyPickles17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is part of having a baby. See if you can get the doctor to talk to him.
2007-01-03 15:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anna:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is a creep. Seriously....you deserve better than that.
Yes, your body changes after childbirth...but any man that truly loves you wouldn't give two hoots about how "loose" your vagina is.
Tell him to get over it or take a walk. :)
2007-01-03 15:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to squeeze something the size of a watermelon out of the size of a lemon, and see if it gets its shape back. you can do exercises to help "tone" it up, but it will never be the same. they are called "kegel" exercises. this should help.
2007-01-03 15:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, you need to do Kegel exercises to develop your muscles down there.
2007-01-03 15:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just pushed a football out of your vagina.. if is being silly to think it wouldn't strech! But it will tighten again...
2007-01-03 15:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks that you are having sex with some else and you know that you are not, he is jerk and you don't need him.
2007-01-03 15:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋