iam a stay at home mom and iam tired of it.iwant to go back to work but he donts trust me again???

Answer 1

Need lots more info. Who doesnt trust you and why?

Answer 2

Take avenue of being a stay at home mom, join support groups of stay at home mom, play groups, and etc. Go to Mops groups in your local area, child care, crafts, refreshments, and other ladies who are in your own situation.
Try to understand his authority he has over you, and the best interest of your children.
Volunteer at school, library, chruch, hosiptal and to involve something to do with your time, take some classes for future employments while he insists that your role is at home.
Then start being submissive to him,love honour, and respect him, and meet all of his sexual needs, and have the house done, his favorite meals done, and work on your self esteem, and work on new hobbies around the house of decoration your living room, bedrooms and etc. Watch crafts shows, home improvements shows, and stay away from all the soaps and talk shows, that can be very depressing!
Meet girlfriends at coffee shops, playdates with girlfriends at the park, and get out more!

Answer 3

Well one you did something for him to have reason not to trust you or two he is being bad on the side and is afraid of you doing the same. Question for you though when you say he doesnt trust you in what way are you talking about? I feel you though on wanting to get out. You need to get out and socialize its healthy!! If it were me I would tell him I understand your concers, but this is something I want to do for myself. You can support me or not, but I am going back to work!! Good luck!

Answer 4

If you're a stay at home Mom because your husband doesn't trust you that's really bad.

You should be a stay at home Mom for one reason and one reason only.....you think it's the best thing for your children.

Anything other than that in this situation is dangerous.

Answer 5

Tell the working dad how you feel. You have a right to be happy. Work this out between the two of you. He needs to compramise some how.

Answer 6

what's going to work have to do him not trusting you .Did you work for the F.B.I. undercover cop,or a st stripper ,you not sharing the whole story,does he have a reason not to trust you?
maybe with your question if you ad a little more and been honest .
I don't want to be harsh ,but I'm not understanding your question.
I don't want to say you marry a JERK. More comments please.

Answer 7

It's too bad no one gets satisfaction for taking care and watching their children grow. Why don't you just throw them in daycare and have someone else raise your kids for you? You're tired of it, that's a lame excuse. It's too bad you need more satisfaction in your life. I feel sorry for your kids. You pretty much said that you'd rather spend time "working" rather than being with your own flesh and blood. It's sick. You should have just given them up for adoption. Your husband deserves a better wife and mother.

Answer 8

Just get a job, make sure you have a sitter and tell him tuff. You want your freedom and you don't want him lording over you....try to get a very good job though, sounds like he might be a terd about it

Answer 9

Don't be angry. Talk to him about the issue. Maybe he was hurt at one time? Anyway, talk with him. My wife went back to work, then a few months later booted me. I understand his plight.

Answer 10

why dont he trust you..did you give him a reason not to trust you? get a job at home...do ebay or something if that helps