I'm currently seperated from my wife because she entered into an immoral relationship.She's now been in this relationship for 3 months, and out of the blue she tells me that they havn't had sex yet. The way she brought it up I have no reason not to believe her.
We had sex about 2 weeks into our relationship so I find it odd that she hasn't takin that step yet.There's a piece of me that hopes the reason is because she doesn't want to ruin any chance of getting back together with me, another piece is telling me she doesn't have true feeling for this other person. I was just wondering what others might thing the true reason might be.
2007-01-03 14:43:33 · 12 answers · asked by Puzzled? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you know your wife better than we do ......... jus t be honest with yourself and the answer you are looking for will be found. oh_hell
2007-01-03 14:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by oh_hell_imagine_that 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your damned if you do and your damned if you don't!
I wouldn't wanna be in your shoes...
I think your old lady is just like any other old lady! Its already over! You are always gonna wonder and shes never gonna tell. If you stay its never gonna leave your thoughts. If you walk away, that craps gonna hurt!
Look, Your separated, I don't know what got you guys there, but your there. Walk away! She entered in to another relationship... Why did she go looking? Why would she be so disrespectfull to herself and the guy she is married to. FTS! Your have a better chance of being happy with out this kind of baggage.
2007-01-03 14:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in no way a relationship expert right now, but I figure if your only seperated that would mean that things might get back on track - however if she is now in a new relationship that tells me she is not intrested in your marrige working. So, I think in your shoes, I would decide if she was worth making it work, or if your better off somwhere else.
2007-01-03 23:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is just hard to move on from one relationship to another. After you have been with someone so long it takes a bit to get use to the thought of someone else.
2007-01-03 14:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without sex, what makes the relationship "immoral"?
2007-01-03 14:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by shannon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman myself, she is lying to you. She's slept with him. Move on with your life but expect her to come running back if you begin seeing someone else. She wanted him so let her stay with him.
2007-01-03 15:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would not believe her and if she really wanted to get back with you she would not be in another relationship. sorry but it sounds to me like you need to move on because she has
2007-01-03 14:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the final stage of cheating and maybe she thinks by not doing that, she's not doing anything wrong ( or really wrong)
2007-01-03 14:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she left...her intention is not to be with you. absence does NOT make the heart grow fonder. sorry. but it's best that you know now.
2007-01-03 14:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to be a Liar! Don't you fall for that one or you're a Damn fool!
2007-01-03 15:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋