Hi I received many advise on my prob that my hubby and my friend had an affair and cheating on me and my friend's hubby, yesterday i talked to my hubby and told abt the sins and what my friend's hubby is going thru, he agreed his mistake and told me ok i will not continue with her, but you can't stop me moving with other women cos that me and i have to aceept him. he also told me that he would not want to leave me but i am not his 100% wife and lack on certain things, this hurt me a lot yesterday and i told him which family is 1005 and which husband and wife is 100% but this is not the solution, he kept quiet, i feel so lousy yesterday that after 15 yrs now i know that i am not his taste and i am lousy that's y he keep having a girl for pleasure and sex. pls adv
2007-01-03 14:41:29 · 17 answers · asked by susan r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not lousy, don't let him destroy your self esteem. A marriage requires 100% effort from both the husband and the wife. You shoudl both see a marriage counselor. If he won't go, go alone. You need supportive people around you now. Reach out to your good friends and family.
2007-01-03 14:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR NOT BORN KNOWING HOW TO MAKE LOVE!!!!now that said, i take it your not an american from the way you talk although it is very sexy....you have that going for you ,,,your not lousy heck the worse we ever get is wonderful...even you...you jus5t need to take a little time and do a little sucky sucky if you know what i mean.think of it as a lolli pop and your waiting on it to pop....caress him love him dont be uptight. relax..things will come to you naturally if he sticks it in your face then please it,,,and in return stick yours in his face and insist that he sucky sucky ,,,youll love that,,,well any way as i say just relax have a drink and things will come to you naturally,,,,now that said ...as far as him you really ought to leave him,,you want a 1 woman man and he wants to be with many women...so you please your self by leaving him and finding a 1 woman man and let him have all the women he wants to have ...you are to good for someone to treat you as he is treating you,,,,DUMP HIM......NOW!!!!!! NEXT QUESTION?????
2007-01-03 14:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bet after everyone reads that absolutely confusing paragraph, they all advised you to leave? Right... how many told you to stay and put up with the cheating?
It's a no brainer honey... leave. NEVER allow another human to tear down your self esteem.. you owe that to yourself.
2007-01-03 14:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by deanie1962 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't gonna work if he's not willing to straighten up. You both need to see a counselor, preferably together. If he won't go, you still need to go for your own self esteem.
Looks like you may need to decide whether or not you can live as part of a threesome.
2007-01-03 14:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely chortle approximately how once you have been small you utilize to be boyfriends and girlfriends,spark up the conversations that way and allow the verbal substitute bypass for a whilst and then say, you comprehend that I by no ability have been given over you whilst we've been youthful.
2016-10-19 10:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should tell him you are leaving unless he gets counseling, and if he doesn't go, leave and get counseling yourself. Nobody deserves this kind of abuse. And get a lawyer for advice on how to to prove his infidelity.
2007-01-03 14:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey go talk to your family and his family regarding this situation and get into counseling. He has no right to disrespect you in this manner and you need your families support as well as counseling to repair your self esteem
Best wishes.
2007-01-03 14:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump the dude before you waste anymore years of your life.
2007-01-03 15:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by m2little 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?! Get rid of this fool! What the heck is the world coming too?
2007-01-03 14:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be with someone who treats you so horribly? Read "Women who Love Too Much", it's very helpful.
2007-01-03 14:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋