My husband is a suppervisor and everytime his employers call wich are most women , he is like always answering the phone way too nicely, he is an outgoing person and he likes to talk a lot and I mean a lot, but sometimes i think he get out of hand , do you think I am jeolous or is this normal.
2007-01-03 14:35:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's normal. I'm sure he would feel the same way! I know I would!
2007-01-03 14:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by joyall57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are more "polite/flirty" towards women. I don't think that he has or had anything going sexually with any of the women that call him. Honestly, I have been accused of flirting with my girlfriend's Aunt...which I really wasn't..I am just nicer to women than men...I hold doors open for them, I even helped a woman load bags of dog food from her "Cart/Buggy" depending on where you are from...It's called a "Cart" up north and down south it's a "Buggy" dont know why really...That isnt the point tho. I helped her put the dog food into her back seat even tho I didn't even know her just because she was a woman and asked for my help. I don't work there either. Guys are just more out-going towards women because we kind of feel a sense of respect from doing such things. As to being nice on the phone with one, if the man is rude to them even tho he is a supervisor, he still will feel just a little bit guilty even if he has done nothing wrong by saying no. We honestly can't say no to a woman..it's not that we want them, its just the way we were raised...Man I hope I get a best answer, because I have just spilled my heart out for you! And SHHH! Don't tell anybody! It might ruin our "Manly" image!! lmao.
2007-01-03 14:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have noticed that men have two distinct voices that they use, one for men and one for women. I don't even have to ask who is on the phone and I can tell if it's a man or a woman. If it's a man, there's a lot of one word grunting, and if it's a women, they speak the way we wish they would talk all the time. It's a real piss off, I think, but that's just one more way that men drive us all nuts! Turn the ringer off on the phone. There's no reason his employees should have to call him at home anyway, unless it's an emergency. Just shut off the phone and don't say a word about it.
2007-01-03 14:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put away all of your insecurites and really look at the issue...and if you still feel like he is "out of hand" he probably is. I am not at all a jealous woman but I would not like my husband/boyfriend talking to his employees (male or female) all the time. Work stay at work and your time is your time. he needs to find a balance
2007-01-03 14:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that he is nice,
the employees call in his free time?
He need respect the time that is with you, and have a family time
You are jealous of the woman that call or the his time with you?
2007-01-03 14:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by latina_y_sincera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the conversation personal or business? If he is discussing job-related issues or employee-related issues, there should not be a problem, even if the conversation is very lengthy.
If your concern is only how much he talks and you don't have a problem with what he is telling them, I recommend that you leave it alone.
2007-01-03 14:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his employees are calling after hours, he needs to address the issue. If he has to be "on call" because of the type job he has and receive calls at home, you will have to adjust.
You didn't tell us when he is getting these calls or what type of work he does.
2007-01-03 14:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a supervisor, it's his job to be nice to his employee's, he depends on them to do a good job, the nicer he is the better performance he will get from them. u may be insecure, and resent the time they take away from u. think if he is a good husband, and u have no reason to believe he is cheating, than i think the problem lies with in yourself.
2007-01-04 00:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if most of his employees are women, he has to treat them a lot differently than he would men. They expect to be treated nicely, especially from their boss. Don't worry.
2007-01-03 14:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by jfahd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get more done with sugar than vinegar. I am sure you appreciate him getting a paycheck. You want to be jealous that is your right;your husband wants continued employment without personnel problems, that is his right.
2007-01-03 14:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by tjdepere2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋