2007-01-03 13:52:38 · 4 answers · asked by P-cilla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honey you need to ask yourself one question: which would you prefer, him watching it or him going out and getting it else where?
according to my husband, men like to watch it for several reasons. one being they are always thinking about sex. another is they aren't getting sex as much as they would like. he says the only way to get your man to stop is to have sex with him all the time.
me on the other hand, i don't think you can get him to stop. he enjoys looking at naked bodies and the watching the act. i would suggest maybe one day taking a sneak peak at what he's watching, and try playing it out. maybe he thinks the sex isn't wild enough for him. i don't know. try doing different positions or maybe some role-playing.
have you asked him why he likes watching porn? perhaps talk to him and see what he likes about it. and then try acting that out.
i wish you the best of luck. i don't have this problem. my husband and i watch it together all the time. we find it to be a fun activity. it helps to give us some ideas on ways to spruce up our sex lives.
right now we aren't having sex that often, and he still watches it, or browses porn online. but i don't care. i'm just happy he's at home with me and not out with some other woman.
2007-01-07 12:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband has a healthy sexual appetite. The next time you catch him looking at porn, offer to do what the woman in the pictures is doing, for real, right then and there. I'll bet you any amount of money he'll drop what he's doing and live the fantasy.
2007-01-04 11:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dom N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL men enjoy pretty women & enjoy it even more if their naked, it's just human nature. Try watching it with him. Watching porn is alot better than cheating. Let sleeping dogs lye in my opinion.
2007-01-03 21:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by nbr660 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want him to stop? Does it have an effect on your relationship to the negative? Have you tried to tell him how you feel.
I watch it because it excites me. Not that my wife does not but our drives are different and for me it is an extra without cheating.
I hope this helps.
2007-01-06 15:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋