This was really said to me tonight, and I don't know how to figure it out. Talking this out is not an option, that doesnt happen.He said we were not a couple any more and that is what he considers me to be.
2007-01-03 13:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by Charlotte T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And the very next time he'd like to have some sex, let him know that it's not good policy to do so with the live in help. + the job has been done, and payment has NOT been sufficient. So you'll be taking it up with the labor dept. AFTER you evict him for non payment of services rendered!
2007-01-03 14:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are being considered as live in help start charging for your services The house should be in both your names so don't consider paying to live in your part of the house. Remind him that a maid makes about 300 a week and a hooker charges so much and that you don't do laundry or windows without getting paid and you AINT talking minimum wage. But Honestly if you are being treated like that then he probably has a piece on the side but if he wants someone to leave let it be him.I pray that there are NO kids involved GOOD LUCK
2007-01-03 22:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jack C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...anyman that says this to his wife has issues....Don't sale yourself short, get out....Staying there and letting him consider you the live in help only degrades you as a person and he obviouly is not even veiwing you as a human that has feelings....That time you are away from him see about you guys getting help....Divorce is not great....so try couples counseling... for something to be said like this there are deeper issues to the problem....
2007-01-03 22:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by getembigger_85027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that.you should leave.if talking is not an option why stay .men will treat you like you let them.if your not a couple what are you .he had no respect for you or your feeling .what your husband meant was your a maid and his.sometimes beening married we feels like maid my husband was like that he say you are my house keeper .so I went out look for a job and got a sitter for my two kids . left.he always said you can leave me .. why cause we are married ....and he yell you never leave me never.It was hard but we never been so happy.I can breath (NOW) am free.....and loving it .its been 5 years
2007-01-03 22:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he does not take u as his wife anymore than move out. Don't pay him rental to stay there. It's so hurting to heard it from yr husband that he want u to pay rental for staying in the house. I suggest u should move on without him.
2007-01-03 22:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw the bum out. He's got no right to talk to you like that. Plus he already said it's over, so don't waste anymore time on him.
2007-01-03 22:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out on the S O B. Before the betting start.
2007-01-03 21:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by david o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you have an argument? if so he was probably just mad...Men say awful things when they are angry.....No i don,t think I would get a job,I would start being what he called me,just live in help...Move into another bedroom and just clean hose,cook and when he wants to be intimate,remind him that you are just live in help,and live in help don,t have to be on duty in bed....He will probably say hes sorry then...........
2007-01-03 22:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a big fat ***,simple as that. leave him,because no women should be considered someones slave. He has some major issues!
2007-01-03 21:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that case, I would officially "put in my notice", and leave him. If he cares no more for you than that, I would refuse to do anything else for him.....If I paid rent, it would be to a new landlord!
2007-01-03 21:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋