say theres a man that was married for 7yrs with a child.he loves his child and wife very much and trys everything emotionally and financially to keep his wife happy.the more he gives/trys the meaner she gets.after 7yrs he gets a e-mail from a old gf.this gf gives him the attention and understanding his wife does not.he leaves his wife for the gf.he is overwhelmed with guilt and trys to comit suicide but at the last min. decides not to for his sons sake.this man then proceeds to give his wife everything house,cars,all the money he has in the bank and gets 2 jobs to make sure his son can keep his lifestyle.so here are my questions:is he a decent guy that tryed to make his marrage work but got temped by a hot sexy blond that was good at manipulation and gave him the love his marrage was missing.or is he just a snake that knew what he was doing and if he was that unhappy in his marrage he should have left before he cheated on his wife.
2007-01-03 12:58:25 · 14 answers · asked by sarahmcnailly789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes
2007-01-03 12:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like he was probably a decent guy at heart but he made a bad decision when he cheated instead of working things out in his marriage. Alot of people tend to turn away from each other when there are problems in the marriage, when they should be turning toward each other to try and work things out. I don't think cheating is ever the right answer...it only complicates things by involving more people. I think if people aren't happy in their marriage they should either separate & seek counseling or get divorced before they start up another relationship.
2007-01-03 13:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem he was diving her things and not the comfort love and frim ness he shopld o fbeen giving her so he did screw up and yews he should of left her before cheating that would of been the right thing to do he was unhappy with him self for doing that he created a monster and now he don't want to deal with it so he's playing around he's the one at a lost.
2007-01-03 13:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. all of us is going to have a distinct opinion in this, yet for the main section, human beings cheat because of the fact they're susceptible and think of they are able to wreck out with it. Then whilst they get caught, they comprehend what they have executed and desire the former individual back and now and back it truly is too late for that. The honorable part of do, if somebody is that tempted, is to pass away the marriage, close the door, and then pursue regardless of sort of happiness they think of they are able to looking. cheating on a individual leaves the different individual wrecked and destroyed. do not do this to a individual. it truly is heartless.
2016-10-19 10:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE CAUSES A SPOUSE TO CHEAT. The cheater needs to take responsibility for the cheating. If things are so bad between spouses, it may be time for a separation and/or marriage counseling.
Cheating only complicates the situation.
2007-01-03 13:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were in the wrong to cheat but don't beat yourself up now. Make some choices you know are right and start over on the right foot.
2007-01-03 13:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that a man should never cheat on his wife no matter how bad the situation might be. its best to talk about the problem and come up with solutions to solve it.
2007-01-03 13:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
someone needs marriage counselings to save what he has.. BTW the old gf might turn out to be a major harpy too just because she is nice now doesn't mean she will be all your life..
careful where you step.. its adultery and its the stuff Jerry Springer and Maury use for their livelihood..
2007-01-03 13:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that he was a decent guy.
i mean, even though he DID cheat, its obvious that his wife didn't love him that much, since she only got meaner.
2007-01-03 13:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a mid life
2007-01-03 13:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was the right thing to do when he left his wife. She was selfish and arrogant.
2007-01-03 13:00:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋