He is so inconsiderate!!!!!!!! He keeps throwing away my things b/c he's not sure what they are and he's too lazy to ask. He then has the nerve to be mad at me when I accuse him of throwing things out when I can't find things. If he ever gets his hands on anything I own, I just know I won't see it again. Do I have anger issues or does he deserve a kick in the pants?
2007-01-03 12:05:11 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't advocate abuse of any form, so here's another solution to your problem. Make sure your things are in their proper place. That way he will have no reason to bother then in the first place. If they're all over the place, and he actually helps you clean up, then he might throw something that you cherish, away. I'm a man, but I have a place for things, and make sure they're there, so they don't get lost or thrown away.
2007-01-03 12:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have anger issues. On the other hand, he sounds like a dolt.
Does that make it OK, if there's enough blame to go around?
It's not normal to want to kick your husband senseless. A good smack upside the head might make you feel better, but kicking can result in serious injuries and he's already senseless enough isn't he?
You guys really need to think about getting some help with this. Obviously you're not working through it as a couple.
2007-01-03 12:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by David G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like my husband. I get so frustrated with him!!! I think it is normal to want to give husbands (or wives) a kick in the pants from time to time. It is not normal to follow through on it. I don't think you have anger issues, but your husband may have some consideration issues. I feel your pain!! Good Luck!
2007-01-03 12:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have anger issues. But, I would to if I was dealing with the same thing! lol
The best thing to do is to have a "hands off" policy with him. Tell him for now on, if he feels the need to move your things, then put the items in a specific location and you will determine whether it needs to be discarded or not.
2007-01-03 12:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave your $#!^ out. You're probably a slob and all he wants is a clean house. I doubt he is just going around throwing away random stuff that is put away. Quit your bi^(#ing. I think he should slap the taste out of your mouth for posting your marriage problems for all to see on the Internet
2007-01-03 12:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Neil h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try putting you rthingsin a specil place or box marked your with your name on it do not touch hubby it's mines and then maybe you can keep peace in the house. sounds like he's only trying to clean up for you. be happy and keep you personal things out of the way.
2007-01-03 13:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too cute, "a kick in the pants". dunno what to tell you girl other than I'm going through something similar with my boyfriend, but he doesn't throw out my things he gives them away to his kids without asking me first & when I say "hey where is my memory card for my camera or who ate my whoppers (candy)" he is quick to say "I'll go buy you a new one"................I like the idea of a good "kick in the pants" lol.
2007-01-03 12:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by Reckless 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go take his beer from the fridge and throw it in the trash. When he asks say oh I thought it had gone bad and twirl you hair.
make sure it is a full case!
2007-01-03 12:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher McGregor 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ya u have the right to be mad at him because he needs to ask u what things are and if u need them..Mine does the same and that is so nerve racking and i know how u fill i think that its a man thing and that they will never grow out of it and they are so usto us doing it all and going thrue things and i think that its funny that we know when going thrue there things if its trash of something that they need what the h***....
2007-01-03 12:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by megryanmc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand why you'd be upset. He should ask - its simple! Its probably not normal to want to kick him senseless, but understandable. Sorry!
2007-01-03 12:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋