Is your husband cheating if you ask to see his cell phone bill and he says i'll think about it and doesn't let

Question

My husband comes home and hides his cell phone and when he forgets it he breaks his neck back home to get it. He hides other womens phone numbers. How I know I accessed his cell phone bill on line and found that he is texting and calling the same women monthly. He is a bad liar and sneaky, every job he gets, he gets these women phone numbers and tells me that there are friends. One woman e mailed him, We need to talk. When we gonna hook up. When I asked him about the e mail he said, oh thats how she talks. She sent him another e mail saying I miss you, and he said I miss you too. He no longer works in the same office with him but she is till calling him. I am about to put the brakes on her and him. She doesn't have a man and he is an *** hole when it comes to the so call work women friends. Sould I let the marriage go or should I cheat and give it to him the way he gives it to me.

Answer 1

He is cheating !!!!!!

Answer 2

Cheating is wrong on either end, and will cause more harm than help the matter. So, either you let him know that you're no dummy, and put your foot down about the females before it's too late (if it's not already). Let him know that you married him because of his commitment to you, and that this is what you expect. If he has a problem just being with YOU, and want others, to let you know so you can get off the list and lead your life elsewhere. He won't do this without lying, but when you confirm his lies, just go for what makes you happy, other than cheating.

Answer 3

Let it go. He is obviously being sneaky and their is no reason to stick around. Some women think,well I need more evidence then this,but the evidence is pretty clear,and it's just an attempt to prove yourself wrong. Do yourself a favor,by you asking,deep down in your heart you know the truth,and your just finding a way to justify your feelings with others opinion,when in the first place,all you need is your own opinion.
If you feel as if you don't want to let go of your marriage,confront him,tell him you know everything,and you want him to admit his wrong doing. You can also tell him you aren't dumb,and won't be made a fool of.
Most women make the common mistake of easily forgiving a guy,but never truly asking the important questions,like,"why?",or even,"how do I know that you won't be doing the same thing?".
You can also demand to see the bill,and his phone, and if he refuses,tell him it proves his guilt. Most men try to guilt women into thinking well 'you are ganging up against me,and don't let it work.'
hope that helps.

Answer 4

Don't lower yourself to his level.
Don't cheat. That would make you a tart and just as bad as the tarts he's seeing.
Give him the flick and keep everything that you can, the house, the cars, the tv, the life savings even go for his shirts and pants if you can get them then donate them to charity.
Don't drag it out for more than a year, or stop before then if revenge stops being fun. If you drag it out for longer than that you'll wind up being terminally bitter.
Guys (and girls) who cheat don't deserve a thing. They should just be mature and let go!
Leave him girl and go find someone more deserving of your company.
and good luck, any divorce is a painful experience, just get through it and laugh at it afterwards.

Answer 5

Sorry, your husband is cheating and I'm sure you already know the answer. When a husband cheat, we often will blamed it on the other woman. But to think carefully, its take two hand to clap, so two of them is the bastard who did you wrong. To give up the marriage its depends, because if your husband still love you he will let go of this woman, both of you need to talk. Give yourself some time to think about it too, to let go or not....

Please do not cheat for revenge, because you could end up hurting yourself or others. Your husband is the one who is unfaithful, so let him suffer and not you......

Answer 6

Give them both what they deserve.....each other. Don't waste your time getting revenge by cheating on him in return....you would eventually regret just letting someone else use you like that. The best thing to do is pack up, move out - or toss his butt out and get on with your life. Someone decent will come into your life when you least expect it. Good Luck!

Answer 7

It's time to let the marriage go, get a divorce and move on with your life. You don't deserve to have a man like that. In my opinion i think hes cheating.

Answer 8

he may be talking to other women on it and is scared that they might call when you are around. he might be afraid that you will look at his texts also. if he didnt have anything to hide, then he wouldnt have a problem letting you look through it. you are his wife after all. dont cheat, it wont make you feel good in the long run. dont stoop to his level. conserve your dignity and stand up for yourself.

Answer 9

Whether he is cheating or not; he is hiding things from you AND lying. You obviously don't trust him. Without trust you have no relationship. You might as well make it official.
Don't cheat on him (I assume you already got somebody picked out). Wait until you are divorced or at least permanently separated.

Answer 10

sounds to me as tho he has something to hide in that cell phone. get it while he is in the shower an investigate all you can , make sure to check the dates as well. do this before you point a guilty finger or ask for divorce. don't bring your self down to a cheaters level , just give it some time...it will all come out in the open sooner or later.

Answer 11

Sorry to tell you your husband is cheating he would not hide his phone ans acts so suspicious if he was not . Let it go doesn't sound as if he is sorry for what he is doing and he protecting this woman and not you.