ok i been with my son father for 7 years we just recentle bought a house and things have been fine well to make a long story short i found a number in his phone which of course was a younger women and she also said he father a son with her when i was 3 months pregant ohhhhhhh boy i never thought it would be me but when i asked for a dna test she said "no i dont need one he will be taken care off" whats should i do not being married to him...he said he never touched her but she know to much information should i just let it go or walk away...
2007-01-03 11:48:12 · 10 answers · asked by shay b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would have him insist on dna to prove one way or another, If she doesn't want this he can insist because he is supposedly the father. Then I would try to think rationally about all of this, and if he is the father, and you love him try and get past his lie and cheat and move on with the future you have with him or walk away and start fresh. This is really a judgement call you will have to make. I don't know, I had something similar happen and when I told the girl that I would have my husband file for joint coustody and I would have her baby six months out of the year she totally changed her tune and said she lied whether she did I really honestly don't know but she didn' t present to be aproblem any more.
2007-01-03 11:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by blueigurl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yall need to go on Maury!! Haha.. Nah.. but that's a serious topic!! U need to sit down with her and him to get to the bottom of it. Males lie.. Just like Females!! She may not be 100% when she says he's the father since she probably slept with sumone else around the same time she "supposedly" slept with your baby daddy. Most women *would* want their child and the father to bond and know each other. I don't see why she doesn't want a DNA test. You need to stress that since it's better to know.. then assume.
2007-01-03 20:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by 2Cute2BYoGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust the guy, there's no way you can build a solid relationship with him and you owe that, not only to your son, but to you as well.
If he won't be honest with you and you believe what this other woman told you, you have to decide if you want to spend/waste your life on someone who's going to cheat on you. And yes, if he's done it once, he'll do it again.
Ask yourself how you'll feel if you spend 10 more years of your life with this man only to find out he's been seeing other women all along? Might it not be better to get out now and make a better life for yourself and your son, perhaps with a man who deserves you.
2007-01-03 19:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your son's father D E M A N D a DNA test. He has the right to know if it is indeed his son.
2007-01-03 20:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Taquino3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me she looking for trouble. If she refuse to show DNA test and he say he never touch her. Something fishing is going on here. She after something. Money, perhaps. Or he is lying. I don't know. You should just let it go. The longer you wait the bigger the problems will be come.
2007-01-03 19:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by TK04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer this question, can you stand the thought of sharing your life with a man that has totally lied to you for 7 years?
2007-01-03 19:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd walk away, if it were me. There are a lot better guys out there.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-01-03 19:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say...See message to the left
2007-01-03 19:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
what if this other woman has VD, STD or deseases
2007-01-03 19:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it checked he could be lieing
2007-01-03 19:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by jkyra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋